Why get married?
Of everyone I know at least one partner is unhappy while the other one is clueless as to how bad the relationship is. My brother is married to a b**** she spends his money and when she earns some it's hers not there's. They have no money she spends more than she earns. They have two kids and we suspect the only reason she had them was to accredit her social status within friends and family. Do to get me wrong she can be nice but it's all an act.
I have many other friends who aren't happy in their marriages, some ave cheated and some just go through the daily grind of a marriage, unhappy and bored.
One friend Iain an open relationship he has slept around and so has she, but I get the feeling she doesn't want to be married anymore, I don't have the heart to tell him besides he wouldn't listen anyway.
I just don't get it, you are together for so long so you work out what that person is like and if you don't like it you still get married?
I personally need someone Exciting, fun ,adventurous and dirty, I don't care what your life has thrown at you good or bad but at least just like to have fun. Looking for drapes or a rug to go with the furniture is not my kind of fun. S** on the clean sheets is not fun, s** in the back seat of a car or in a change room is!
Catching you masturbating is! Catching you watch the ABC is not! Hearing that you had a drunken night with your friends dressed inappropriately and flirting with guys is, hearing that you sat around talking and b******* at a dinner table with a bottle of wine is not.