I have been married to my husband for almost 12 years and we have 2 wonderful boys whom I adore. My husband and I have been going through a dry spell and frankly I am having a hard time finding him sexually appealing, A few weeks ago a guy that I work with asked me for my cell number so I gave it to him. At first we started just texting about work and people around our building but for about 2 weeks our text messages have become very racy and earlier this we he took me to lunch and we fooled around a little. I love my husband and I have no plans of breaking up my marriage or his but this really fun and it has actually got me more interested in s** with my husband. Every part of me knows it is wrong but before we were married he cheated on me and in a way I think of it as my little bit of fun and that is how I'm justifying it to myself.