Life hates me

I have feelings for her. She is married . And she love her husband . But I am sure she has feeling for me. I am try to forget her but its very hard for me . yes yes yes its hurt me .

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  • This is short and may sound cold but believe me its not.

    Do not suffer for one human being when there are over six thousand millions that have not met you yet. For one woman you will miss out on the rest. Thousands waiting to meet you. Waiting to be loved and sexed by you but they will never experience the love you are capable of giving because you caved yourself with one who has already committed herself to someone else. Dont do it to yourself. Never mind her & him. There is a woman somewhere in the world with your name on her.

  • I truly feel for you, because I have been exactly where you are. The woman I dated for years -- in deepest secret -- kept postponing her separation from hubby and kids. I'm certain she loved me, and she knew that I loved her, but she couldn't bring herself to leave. Your situation may be different, and maybe your girl WILL leave; you'll just have to play that by feel. All I can tell you is that you shouldn't wait forever, and though it will be against your instinct and wishes to set a deadline for her, I think that's what you have to do. Something long enough that it won't seem immediate, but something short enough that she won't fall into the attitude of not doing anything about getting out of the marriage or even thinking about it because the deadline is so far into the future. You obviously know how to give love, and there are other women out there who want it. Something you might want to consider is dating another woman while you're still in this relationship with the current girl: let her see that you're capable of moving on and able to live without her. She knows that, subconsciously, but she needs to SEE it right in front of her. If you can, make that "other woman" one of her friends: that will really increase the pressure. Good luck!

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