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I'm afraid i have very few friends. i
I'm afraid i have very few friends. i live on a college campus as a first year and for the first semester i was doing well, talking to everyone and going on fun little outings. but now as the year is ending most people are moving out and none have even asked me if i would like to live with them in apartments. people who i once thought were my friends are joining their own small groups of friends and i m left with nothing. i have no small group of friends, everyone has left me and i feel so lone.i hate this. my only consolation is that someone will read this, that im not just bottling this up inside.as im writing this i hope to god one of my so called friends will knock on that door and ask me to hang out or to do something. but they dont even seem to want me as a friend let alone as someone to live with them. why is this happening to me why do i feel so bad.i want to end my life because it is not happy, i am not having a good time. but My family, the only people who seem to care about me would b so dissapointed. if only there were some way to end this. i hate being lonely. i hate this..
Im am alone right now with nothing to do because I am in the same situation but I am in my third year of college. I talk to people in my major in the classrooms but outside of class a bunch of them hang out togoether and never ask me to hang out. I don't know why because i really do have a great personality and am fun to hang out with, i was just really shy my first year of college so i didnt make any friends. your first year is scary. like you my first semester was awesome i met a ton of new people and was having fun but then they all disapeared and joned their own little groups, and my family knows i didnt really make any real friends in college but they never really talk about it. its so embarrasing. Im depressed too but i have been even in high school when i had a lot of friends and i always think about dying but i hang in there because i hope that when i am older and have a job my life will be different.
I am in the same position as you. What I thought to be many friends turned out to be a lie. I'm going to be twenty-three soon and I can't tell you how sad it is to realize that the people who I surrounded myself with are unreliable, backstabbing, money grubbing, and FAKE.
Be strong and realize that making many friends isn't what matters. It's making those few friends that will stick with you through thick and thin. These people usually show up when you least expect them to and stick with you until the end.
Feel better. I'd be your friend...
i know how you feel...i have one good friend, and he moved to DC to go to school. i'm not the best at making new friends, so my days consist of working and World of Warcraft, which is a bit sad because i know i'm a very attractive, nice, young woman. i find small solace in the people i work with...i ask them to go to the bar after work once in awhile, so it's a bit looser of an atmosphere after work. it's hard for me to ask them, but i try. maybe approach them instead of waiting? i know it might seem like they might think your forcing it or something (yeah my mind goes in a million directions thinking of every different scenario) but it's worth a shot. with your friends, or co workers. i get really depressed at my lack of friends, it really **, i know....i guess if nothing else, just know that you're not alone. i know exactly how you feel.
you're not alone - I'm in the exact situation. But still, it doesn't mean nobbody cares about you. And your family will never be disappointed in you. Talk to some of your friends. Don't end your life.