I feel my husband is lazy
I know my husband hasn't been able to get the type of job he likes and has had to take jobs that he dislikes. I expect him to put up with it as I do with my job for the sake of supporting the household. I don't feel he has the same sense of responsibility. I often feels he takes advantage of the stability I offer. I resent seeing him stay at home looking for jobs with his legs propped up, laughing at funny things he finds on the internet and otherwise whining about how unhappy he is. I don't like that he holds out for the better jobs- putting it off- when the track record is that they haven't called. He knows he's smart but I wish he would realize that these recruiters do not. All I want for him to do is provide for his family. And if he so has the need to use his mind that he do so in a volunteering capacity. The situation seems unfair. My sense of responsibility does not allow me to look for other jobs especially when I don't feel supported financially by him.