I cheated on my wife this past weekend. I feel horrible. We are friends with another couple and we all drank too much. My wife went to bed and this other woman and I had a few minutes of inappropriate contact before we both realized what we were doing was very, very wrong so I left immediately. My wife saw me leave our guest room and confronted me the next day. She was devastated and I had to be honest with her. She deserved that much. Now my wife doubts our entire marriage and our future and the friendships are ruined with one single, stupid act and. Who can blame her. What a mess we created for no reason. My wife is a good person and we have a great marriage. There was no reason for this to happen. I'm not unhappy, just a complete idiot. Drinking too much and stupid flirting led to disaster in the blink of an eye. I am such a better person than this and I have never touched another woman during our marriage. We were all such good friends and did everything together and I can't undo this. I ruined everything.