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I have been having a bad time with the
I have been having a bad time with the partner i live with. He has been seeking attention else where and sending dirty text messages saying he didnt love me and he wanted her. But telling me it was all a joke.
I went out with the girls, and got drunk and went home with a male mate. he kissed me and i pulled away telling him i had a boyfriend... but then i decided that he hurt me enough, i would do something for me. So i slept with him.
I told him i kissed another guy, but not that I had ** with him. I feel awfull. Im a cheater, and the type of person i hate. But i still love him and want to fight to keep him. Thats what the mistake helped me realise.
That's a horrible relationship!
That is a very unhealthy relationship. It will hurt more the longer you let this go on. Get out now, even if it hurts, you will get over it eventually!
Notice that the commenter above me is an idiot.
At least you were able to find out you love him. If he's man enough, he'll get over the one nighter...it's not unusual at all to have more than 1 partner. It's better to find out what you want before you get married. He should appreciate that.... if not, he's not worth the relationship anyway... you need to tell him the whole truth, even though there is a risk he'll bolt....On a side note, I am a guy, and I'd give anything to have ** with a drunk girl.....inhibitions are fewer I'd imagine, and the ** would be awesome. What do you remember from the ** while drunk..?