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Friend was date ** while black out drunk
My friend was date **. She drank so much she blacked out. She said she had no intention of having **, but she woke up the next day to find that the guy she was dating had unprotected ** with her when she was black out drunk. She doesn't remember anything that happened other than drinking that night, then she blacked out. The next thing she remembers is waking up the next day sore. I told her that if she was that drunk, she was too drunk to consent to ** and that guy was a creep for taking advantage of her when she was drunk because she wouldn't let him when she was sober. I told her to get checked out for STDs and have a ** kit done. She never got checked out. She didn't take the morning after pill. He, of course, didn't confess to ** her. She said she didn't want to think about it. She didn't seem to be acting herself and something was off. She was behaving like she is trying to convince herself that she just did something stupid and had a one night stand, but my friend seemed different, like something was really bothering her that she wouldn't or couldn't face. She told me that she hadn't had ** with that guy before that night and hasn't since. She thought she wouldn't get pregnant since it was just one time. Unfortunately, a few weeks later she missed her period, and found out that she is pregnant from that **. I tried to get her to report what happened, but she got a scared look, and said she doesn't want to think about that night. I told her she has to think about it because she either has to abort that **'s baby or prepare to be a mother, because the consequence of that ** is arriving whether she wants to think about it or not. I can't seem to get through to her. I told her that if he did that to her with no remorse, he is going to hurt other women the same way. Any ideas on how to get through to her?
I'm a divorced 32-year-old woman. My teenaged son ** me one night after I'd had too much to drink. I tried to push him off me, but he was too strong. He ** my again in the morning. The strange thing was that each time I felt him spunking off up me, I had a cu m.
Oh the perils of being a dumb **...😆😆😆
So your friend may not remember ** the guy? Remember men and women are equal, so if they were both drunk then they ** each other.
My girl friend invited me to a singles party. Told me there would be a lot of hot guys looking to meet single girls. It didn't take long for her to hit it off with a guy. Lost track of her thinking she had left with the guy not telling me. On my way to the bathroom up stairs, I peeked into half open bedroom door. The she was, laid out on the bed completly naked with three guys on top of her ** her and shoving ** into her mouth. They just looked at me and me and kept doing her as if I was the next on line. Didn't know if she was drunk, drogged or having fun. I just left before they got any ideas about me. Two days later, when I asked her she seemed not to remember anything about it.
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Absolutely not **. You can function quite normally and not even appear very intoxicated when blacked out, I have plenty of experience with this personally. If she cannot recall consenting, she also cannot recall NOT consenting. Given that they were dating, she has NO reasonable cause or proof that he forced himself on her. To charge someone with an offense like that that will severely alter their future is unethical in my opinion. I have had so many instances of friends talking the next day about what I did the night before, some surprising to me and some not, and these close friends were completely shocked when I said I had no recollection of the events. I wasn’t slurring. Wasn’t stumbling. Wasn’t showing any signs of being drunk. But I did black out regardless. And most certainly I’ve woken up next to someone who I clearly had ** with by no memory of it, nor any intent (while sober earlier on) of sleeping with. And after asking around to my own friends, was told I completely instigated the encounter and was almost acting “rapey” myself.
So just because I don’t remember it, I get to claim **? I think ** not. Don’t make actual ** victims less credible with this **.
Did he twist her arm to drink that much?
Where were her friends?
Sounds like she needs better friends, and hang out with a better crowd.
If she was that drunk, she may well have consented and even started ** the guy, before she passed out. I know it happens. It happened to me.
Listen dumb **. Blacking out isn't the same as passing out. Blacking out is when your brain literally stops recording meaning you have no memories. This doesn't mean you are unconscious. I don't know what happened unless someone who is conscious tells me, but it is very likely that your friend got ** very willingly and enjoyed it, but not remembering. You ** don't even know how your own brain works or that alcohol does to you and you dare to claim that you are **. Uneducated children crying when they do ** they want to get away from because they are raised to be irresponsible.
** is when the guy drugs the girl. Your friend got herself drunk, and the guy might mot know wasn't siber enough for proper concent. Sounds like she got. ** when drunk and ** the best avail **. Don't feel bad. She's irresponsible.
Nope. You are completely wrong about this. ** is when one partner does not consent to ** but their body is used sexually, anyway. It's like saying it's okay for your friend to go into your wallet and take all of your money when you're drunk because...well...you were drunk! You were asking for it.
This happens to men too. I was at a party when a guy passed out on a couch and had I not been there he would have been orally **.
Everyone needs to watch out. Heard a story about a guy who went to a costume party dressed as a girl. Costume was a cheerleader or something like that with a shorter skirt and went all out with hair/wig, makeup, shaving and ended up having way too much to drink. Sometime later after he passed out in a room, some crazy ** happened. He woke up with a hangover and very sore **. The costume must have been convincing or convincing enough with alcohol involved, because he got ** **. The ** maybe thought he was ** ** a passed out girl, or was gay, or just didn't care.
His ** also had a STD. Wasn't HIV, but was something that stays with you for life, so assuming that meant it was herpes or warts?
There are sick ** out there looking for victims, never drink more than you can handle. When you pass out, crazy ** happens.
I had a friend that happened to as well. She blamed herself for what happened because she was drinking to try and drown another problem. She blacked out too and ended up getting date ** when she was blacked out. She was in denial about it for a long time. The ** was the only time the guy was able to get to her sexually and he didn't wear any protection when he ** her. She got pregnant from that, but tried to make the best of it. The guy kept trying to pressure her and she saw what a creep he was, but not till after she had the baby he ** into hee. He left her to raise the child alone. You need to get through to your friend no matter what and make sure she comes to terms that she was ** and don't have the **'s baby. Press charges so he doesn't wait till another lady has blacked out or passed out and can't give consent and do the same thing to her. If she doesn't remember drinking very much, but feeling wasted, then her date might have spiked her drink with something to make sure she couldn't fight back and wouldn't say no.
Sadly too many stories like that. A relative had a friend, close like a sister.
Nice girl, very pretty. Had recently gotten married, but was pregnant unplanned. Wasn't on the pill, always used condoms, and assumed failure. Planned on marriage, big family, but the pregnancy moved up the date, so happy and in love.
Joy turned to sorrow. The baby was born, but not her husband's. Both white and shocked - black baby. Complications with the pregnancy and birth, was told may be the only child she may ever have.
Never cheated. No interest in black men. She had been **. No STIs though.
Talked adoption, not raising a **'s baby, but she had bonded with the baby while pregnant thinking it was her husband's, half her, and maybe the only baby she could ever have, so she didn't give it up.
How? When? How could you not realize? Months before, she had gone to a party at a friend's place. Friends invited more friends, other people started coming in. She had a few drinks, felt tired, and found a room to lay down and locked the door. She woke up with a terrible headache. She was so relaxed passed out or her ** was small and didn't even know someone had ** her. Woke fully clothed.
Some sick ** followed her and had probably spiked her drink, because that was the only way he could get a white gal was to ** her limp body after she passed out. Never cheated, so she assumed a condom failure and pregnant with her fiance's baby.
So happy before and now seem very sad with an unruly son whose looks remind the husband it's not his son and remind her of a ** she didn't know happened. Still no kids together. She is not a cheater, but so many women have and lied about ONS, so many doubt her. He may believe her, but wouldn't there always be doubts? How could she not know she was **? They may split up, all because some black piece of filth wanted to ** a limp passed out white girl who was out of his league.
Poor lady. Rapists should lose it their parts. Castrate them and have their winkies cut off as well, so they have to sit to pee.
Agreed. Rapists should lose it all.
How terrible and heartbreaking. My heart goes out to her and her husband. Her ** won't get away with his crime forever. He can't escape the Final Judge.
What a terrible piece of **. Hopefully it isn't too late and something can still be done to catch her **. Didn't even know she was **, so no ** kit would have been done, but maybe if the police at least got the kid's DNA into the system, they could match it to other rapes or mixed kids or close relatives and catch that **.
I remember hearing to be wary of drugs in drinks that would make you pass out, totally relax and not feel **, and give memory loss. There are many sick ** out there from all groups that use those drugs, but they were supposedly originally used mainly by Hispanic guys and black guys to ** mainly white women who were out of their league and most wouldn't use any protection, hoping they could get the white woman they had ** pregnant.
A sick ** like her ** wouldn't have stopped at just one white gal. There had to have been other rapes and unfortunately maybe also other delivery room shocks.
All very good advice here. Just support her, that is all you can do and all that you are doing. You are a good friend. You can always offer to make appointments, drive her wherever, hold her hand but if she doesn't want to talk or deal, you can't force her. She is in denial. No one is going to judge her harder than what she is doing now. Not saying anyone is judging her, just that we are always hardest on ourselves. Let her know (again) that you're on her side. She doesn't want to press charges, fine. But the pregnancy needs to be dealt with. It's no longer just about her. I may ask her what she would tell you if the roles were reversed..but think the best way is to not tell her what to do.
Agree with the person that said there's more to this story.
My guess is she consented, had **, and then regretted it. If she's pregnant she doesn't want to blame herself and it's easy to blame him.
Another option is that she possibly consented, had **, and didn't remember it in the am. I know lots of married people who do this.. the wife has a great time, then wakes up in the morning and barely remembers it (or doesn't remember at all).
She may have consented, then they made out for 1/2 hr while all of the booze kept kicking in, then they had **. She woke up in the morning saying "hey I got date **"
Not saying that is what happened but it's a possibility.
There are some trashy ** may do this, but most women don't imply ** because they regretted having **.
You putting pressure on her.let her sole her issues at her own pace. You make her abort and she will hate you,let whatever she does be her own idea,choice,decision and not someone else's. Just be a friend and be supportive.The guy may be a ** to you but her baby's daddy to her.Sit and think what you are doing,not what she needs to do or is not doing.