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Friend was date ** while black out drunk
My friend was date **. She drank so much she blacked out. She said she had no intention of having **, but she woke up the next day to find that the guy she was dating had unprotected ** with her when she was black out drunk. She doesn't remember anything that happened other than drinking that night, then she blacked out. The next thing she remembers is waking up the next day sore. I told her that if she was that drunk, she was too drunk to consent to ** and that guy was a creep for taking advantage of her when she was drunk because she wouldn't let him when she was sober. I told her to get checked out for STDs and have a ** kit done. She never got checked out. She didn't take the morning after pill. He, of course, didn't confess to ** her. She said she didn't want to think about it. She didn't seem to be acting herself and something was off. She was behaving like she is trying to convince herself that she just did something stupid and had a one night stand, but my friend seemed different, like something was really bothering her that she wouldn't or couldn't face. She told me that she hadn't had ** with that guy before that night and hasn't since. She thought she wouldn't get pregnant since it was just one time. Unfortunately, a few weeks later she missed her period, and found out that she is pregnant from that **. I tried to get her to report what happened, but she got a scared look, and said she doesn't want to think about that night. I told her she has to think about it because she either has to abort that **'s baby or prepare to be a mother, because the consequence of that ** is arriving whether she wants to think about it or not. I can't seem to get through to her. I told her that if he did that to her with no remorse, he is going to hurt other women the same way. Any ideas on how to get through to her?
I think there's something about that night that she isn't telling you because it doesn't support her story. I can't guess at what it might be, but I can tell you that her behavior suggests something less than total candor.