I've been at my job for 8 years and there's this woman who is technically my boss, but we're the same age from the same town. Pretty good friends too, I'm married and she's in a pretty serious relationship. I find myself very attracted to her, I like hearing everything she has to say, she listens to me as well. We share what's on our minds about our partners and just everything that is going on in our lives at home. One time I was getting a ride to town with her after work. She had her hand beside her on the arm rest and I don't know why but I just did it a grabbed her hand and held it, I know sounds so exciting but it was because she looked at me with a sheepish little smile and tightened her grip. We just held hands until I got off the car. I know it's so boring and childish but it seemed like it was a big deal.