I have been snooping through my boyfriends email secretly for the past year that we have been together. He has no idea and does not lock up his email because he trust me completely. I never find anything that proves I cannot trust him. I do see interactions between him and his ex-wife which end up driving me crazy. But they are innocent. I know that if he found out he would break up with me immediately. Every time I do it I feel so ashamed and guilty and swear I'll never do it again. But then I end up doing it again.

Apr 8, 2015

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  • I do the same with my husband. I don't know why I have to keep snooping. I guess just keep waiting for something major to happen so I have a reason to have our relationship to end. Don't get me wrong, I don't want it to. But I have been screwed over too many times to trust any man.

  • Everyone comes into a relationship with baggage or a past. But if you don't trust who you are with you are going to doom your relationship. And if you continue to snoop, you're going to find something you are not happy with finding. And it will serve you right. You obviously have trust issues. You will destroy this relationship and all future relationships if you don't figure this out. Or maybe it's you that has something to hide.

  • You make it sound like an addiction, but it's nothing nearly so glamorous as that. It's an insult to your boyfriend, no less so because he's unaware of it. Stop today. You can. You should. You must.

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