And I just left her
Several years back, I started chatting with this chick online, Erin. A few months before I had started dating another girl, I'll call her Dana. After chatting online a few days, it turns out Erin and I know each other via mutual friends. So in my conversations with Erin, she let's me know she has no interest in a relationship and I'm up front with her about my new "relationship" with Dana. Over the days, Erin and I start to engage in some steamy conversations and to make a long story short we end up having s**. Great,steamy, passionate s**. The "I've had a rough two weeks at work and I need a release" kind. Our conversations weren't always about s**, sometimes just us discussing our dating life or just a casual conversation. She always made it clear that we were just friends with benefits and by no means should I expect anything more..as in boyfriend/girlfriend expectations. Which worked great for me.
Meanwhile, Dana is turning into Wifey material. Things are getting serious.
Well one day Dana is out of town on business and Erin calls me up and one thing leads to another and we're laying in a motel room after round 2 of a hot session and my phone rings. It's Dana so I answer it. We chat for a few minutes, then I hang up. I look over at Erin and she's crying. I ask her what's wrong and she insists it's nothing. We get dressed and I leave knowing that I can't see her anymore. That was the last time I saw Erin. The sad part is, I really cared for her, in fact I was falling in love with her. But she had so clearly set the boundaries, I never felt that our relationship would go any further. Dana and I are happily married BTW but I still think about Erin every once in awhile. Am I a DB?