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I'm 34, married with two kids. I'm in the military and quite fit. I love my wife but I'm sexually bored. I've tried spicing things up with her but we have very different tastes.
In my job I train people. A woman, the same age as me, was supposed to be on a course which I was the manager of. I spoke with her on the phone briefly and had an instant connection with her. I'm quite conservative normally and very private - tests indicate I'm highly introverted. I say this because the following situation is uncharacteristic of me. This woman began emailing me, asking about the course then she asked me to send her a text message for something. I don't use mobile phones but I do have one. It's almost at the end of a 2 year contract, I'd only used it twice in two years. I texted her and sent her a few emails - all work related. She seemed overly friendly so I told her I was happily married with two kids. This didn't change how she behaved towards me - I put it down to her being a very friendly person.
The text messages continued as did the emails. She sent me a picture of herself - she's very attractive. I sent her one of myself with my wife and kids. She said she thought I was attractive. I like writing, I've written a lot of stories. She asked if she could read one of my stories - a romantic one. I sent it to her and she really enjoyed it - she did say it wasn't very steamy though. I wrote her an erotic story - which she loved. She told me she masturbated to my story. This turned me on. I wrote her more stories and she described how she played with herself. I confessed that I would like to watch her do that some day. She said she would let me watch but I couldn't touch. My stories are heavy on c********** - it's my favorite thing actually. She asked if I've ever thought about eating her - and I admitted that I had thought about it a lot.
My wife found my messages and confronted me about it. I told her our love life is stale and this woman arouses me. A dozen long conversations later, my wife has tried to spice up our love life. We've been intimate every night now for two weeks. I still text and message my friend and my wife knows she gets me erect. She wants to meet my friend. My friend will be here in a few weeks - it's the first time we'll meet each other. I think it will be awkward. She tells me about her brazillian waxes, her hot stone massages and describes her masturbation sessions. I love it and I don't want to give that up. I really want to go down on her. What should I do? My wife told me not to have s** with her, just text her.. it's a strange situation.
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Ok I read what everyone is saying , I clearly see the problem You Mr.Military man who i respect for your willing to serve out country , I thank you !
Your bored in the bedroom so now there is a empty spot that wants to be filled and this woman came into your life and some how got you where she wants you to be .
Here is my advise !
Do not talk to this woman anymore unless it's about her job some course that's how it all started right she never showed up or something like that .
Now dealing with your wife because that is what the real problem is .
You need to tell her how you feel about the s** ask her about maybe trying a discreet swingers club .
Once your s** is being fulfilled then you won't have problems with woman at work because your getting the s** you crave for .
How can you be so smart with your job and yet so dumb in your personal life ?
I really don't get it -
I think woman should not be in the military they are more of a detraction then gays will ever be ! Your willing to lose everything you work hard for over a woman ?
This woman who sent you a picture of you that there you should of stop and maybe even reported it .
Unless your wife gives you the OK sign your playing with fire and you will lose your wife and child and maybe your job ,respect for what ! a fling ??
Oh and btw - How do you know this is not a set up for her to charge you for sexual harassment ? If someone sent me text flirting with me and I told her I was married and have a child and she keep flirting that would be a sign that something is not right !
You need to start tappin' that ass. She wants it. You want it. It should happen.
If your wife is involved in whatever you do with this other woman, there's no downside. Enjoy it. Maybe there's a 3-way in your future! Good luck!!!
Military man? Haven't you been hearing of all these s** scandals in military bases around the country? I am not military but isn't it against you guys code to cheat on a spouse?Are you using military computers to email all these steamy stories to her? Why send her all these intimate emails,she is going to blackmail the s*** out of you..she sounds like the type. I have f***** hundreds of women and been in all types of weird situation;I think you are headed for trouble.In your divorce,your wife is going to use your emails and messages to show that you were a cheat and caused her emotional stress and clean you out.I never say no to a good p**** but this one is likely to chop your nuts off!On the other hand,good eating..I just got to my apt after eating and f****** my woman last nite so why ask you to abstain?
No kidding reading the post he wrote was like watching a horror show and knowing the ending and this guy is thinking with his d*** not his heart and that can tear down a man in one shot .
I agree what you say.