Should I or shouldn't I?
I'm 34, married with two kids. I'm in the military and quite fit. I love my wife but I'm sexually bored. I've tried spicing things up with her but we have very different tastes.
In my job I train people. A woman, the same age as me, was supposed to be on a course which I was the manager of. I spoke with her on the phone briefly and had an instant connection with her. I'm quite conservative normally and very private - tests indicate I'm highly introverted. I say this because the following situation is uncharacteristic of me. This woman began emailing me, asking about the course then she asked me to send her a text message for something. I don't use mobile phones but I do have one. It's almost at the end of a 2 year contract, I'd only used it twice in two years. I texted her and sent her a few emails - all work related. She seemed overly friendly so I told her I was happily married with two kids. This didn't change how she behaved towards me - I put it down to her being a very friendly person.
The text messages continued as did the emails. She sent me a picture of herself - she's very attractive. I sent her one of myself with my wife and kids. She said she thought I was attractive. I like writing, I've written a lot of stories. She asked if she could read one of my stories - a romantic one. I sent it to her and she really enjoyed it - she did say it wasn't very steamy though. I wrote her an erotic story - which she loved. She told me she masturbated to my story. This turned me on. I wrote her more stories and she described how she played with herself. I confessed that I would like to watch her do that some day. She said she would let me watch but I couldn't touch. My stories are heavy on c********** - it's my favorite thing actually. She asked if I've ever thought about eating her - and I admitted that I had thought about it a lot.
My wife found my messages and confronted me about it. I told her our love life is stale and this woman arouses me. A dozen long conversations later, my wife has tried to spice up our love life. We've been intimate every night now for two weeks. I still text and message my friend and my wife knows she gets me erect. She wants to meet my friend. My friend will be here in a few weeks - it's the first time we'll meet each other. I think it will be awkward. She tells me about her brazillian waxes, her hot stone massages and describes her masturbation sessions. I love it and I don't want to give that up. I really want to go down on her. What should I do? My wife told me not to have s** with her, just text her.. it's a strange situation.