The proposal

I have been dating my boyfriend who is also my business partner for over 3 years. We have broken up a few times. In between one of our recent break ups I met someone and completely fell in love (have known him 5 years as just an acquaintance). Unlike anything I have ever felt before. Within a month he proposed to me with a ring and everything! Then my boyfriend and I tried to work on getting back together. Well, that's not going to work, we just have too much baggage. But I am not sure what to do about working with him. Do I find another job? I started our business 15 years ago, I hate to throw it all away. Do I try and make the business still work and be friends or do I say f*** it and find something else and be with the guy who I am crazy in love with and wants me to marry him?

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  • Hi, will you please view my relationship poem, go to Google, type in my name, Derek Newell Poet, then view my poem ''EXPRESS IT'', and please, be excellent to one another. Thank You.

  • For the business, what do you have in the way of written agreements? Who owns what? Because choosing to stay and working with your ex may not even be an option. He could just not be on board to working with you anymore. And should he agree..it could be either be great or a sticky situation depending on the maturity levels for the both of you. As you said..baggage..It may be best, if you are starting a new life that he buys you out. Just because, you probably haven't been broken up for very long before you started things up again with the new guy. Old feelings may still surface. As you said, you started to work things out with your ex even after getting engaged. Which makes me wonder, if you know exactly what you want. The engagement is very exciting. A whirlwind romance. A month is very quick, be sure to get to know him very well before heading down the aisle..just because it doesn't sound like you were single for more than a week before this other guy came into the picture. Just be sure you're thinking with your head and not your heart. You can have a long engagement to be certain.

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