I really do like you but....

I really do like you but im afraid of being in a relationship.

The reason is because of my family.
My father had once slap me across the face hard enough to make me fall to the floor, when he found out i had a boyfriend three years ago. My relatives such as grandmothers want me to become like my mother pregant at a young age and with a men that beast me.

I guess wanting to prove them wrong is taking me away from happyness.

Maybe i should take the chance.....

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  • Is your family keeping you away from education too?


  • I don't know how old you are, but if you were my daughter and under the age of 15 and told me you had a boyfriend, I would slap your ass too. I remember what I was doing around that age, and it scares the h*** out of me to think of my daughter doing those things. Obviously, slapping you wouldn't be the best solution, but sometimes parents aren't perfect either, and the shock of that situation may cause bad reactions. Your dad is looking out for you, honey, and he will be when no one else will (especially stupid teenage boys).

  • You need to be "and with a men that beast me"? I can probably help out with that.

  • Why do you need their approval???
    You're your own person, live for yourself, not people who claim to love you.

    I'm kinda of in the same situation when I was 15 my cousin had just had a baby she was 34, my uncle turned to me and asked me "So when are you going to make your father a grandfather?"
    I thought what the h*** I'm 15!
    Well I aviod certain memebers of the family and I'm happy now.
    Although I know family is something you can't get just throw out of your life, if I could I would.

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