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WIFE STRIPS UPDATE
My wife Sara worked as a stripper at a an all ** ** when the economy was bad. I posted the confession years ago. She worked another 2 years after I told her I wanted her to quit! She liked the money, and enjoyed the job. She finally quit after her Mom almost found out, plus the kids were getting older and asking questions. I was always told not to come to the club when she worked. But, the last night she wanted me to come to watch her last night, everyone was sending her off.
I honestly was apprehensive because she never told me what went on. Plus, she had done a few things that irritated me. Sara and her friends at the club, had gotten tattoos of the logo of the club on their butts. Her stripper friends would keep her out sometimes to the early morning. That's how her Mom almost found out, her Mom was waiting in the driveway when she got home one morning to see her!
I came in to the club, and saw a gorgeous woman dancing ** on the stage. **, it was my wife! She was wearing a wig, and made up so I didn't even recognize her at first. I got a drink, her friend Melissa came over to say hello. She told me everyone was going to miss her,but she understood why she had to quit. Sara came off the stage **, and walked over to a guy, and started talking to him, she took his a hand, and walked to back of the club. Melissa told me she was just giving a private dance, and not to worry the guy was one of Sara's regulars. that really didn't help me. Melissa kept talking to me to distract me from my wife.
My wife comes back after her dance, and sees me and walks over with big smile on her face, and gives me a big hug. "Want a private dance?" I I said, "Sure" She then surprises me, and says, "Melissa would you give my Hubby a lap dance." The lap dance was fantastic, but I was then wondering does my wife do the same thing for everyone she brings back here? Trying not to freak out , Melissa and I move back to front of the club, and I see my wife on stage with another stripper, named Mercedes. They are all over each other , kissing each other, and rubbing each others **. The money is dropping on the stage like snow.
She comes off the stage, and comes up to me, and says, "Having fun?" I kept my cool, because I knew this was her last night, I wish I never had come. Faking it, I said, "Oh yeah!" She was going to the dressing room, and we were going to leave, but she got pulled over to a table, and she proceeded to take two guys to the back of the club. After about 10 minutes the guys come back giving each other high 5's. She must of went to the dressing room, because she came out fully clothed She waved goodbye to everyone, and we left. I didn't bring up anything, and life went on.
However, about a month ago, Melissa called and asked my wife if she would host a bachelor party at the club, one of Sara's regulars was getting married, and he wanted her there. Thinking she would just be the host, I said OK. It was one time, and she wasn't what i thought, going to be naked, or give lap dances.
At the night of the event, my wife is going through her old stripper clothes, I thought that was odd. She then tells me one of the girls couldn't make it, and she was going to work ** again. Well, I was obviously angry, she then promised me she wouldn't do any lap dances, or anything risque.
The bachelor party happened, she swore nothing went on, she even had Melissa talk to me. Marriage has its up and downs, and we have had more happy times than not. I just do not want her unhappy, I honestly think at times though, she wishes she still worked there.
I wish the news and the outlook were better, but I'm afraid they aren't. I've been in your situation exactly, and have male friends -- husbands (or exes) of my wife's co-workers -- who have been there, too, and I have to say that if change is to be brought to the relationship, it's going to have to be you who brings it. She's not likely to change (girls who work in this trade either are or become addicted to the attention/glamor, the money, the sexual activity, or the personal drama, or all four), so you'll have to be the one to change. You will either have to knowingly and willingly accept that the woman you're married to is ALWAYS going to do this (or for as long as she's physically able and attractive enough), and so you'll have to accommodate the behavior, or you're going to have to leave. Not happy choices, I know, but these seem to be the only ways this can resolve itself, by your action. If you really love her, you'll stay, but if you only enjoy the relationship when you're in charge of it, you're done already. Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings, but I think that's the landscape of your situation. Good luck.
**. Heve her buy you a nice car or something. Does she come home and ** you? Do you check her ** if its wet with **?