I want to kill my mothers boyfriend
My mother left my father because she fell in love with this piece of **. My father wasn't the best person. He always hurted us physically and we hated him. And now there is him. He said to us that he doesn't see us as a family(which is not a problem because we don't see him as a family as well) but then why the ** does he want to be my father?! My mother has a child from him. He is really adorable and we love him. We are living in this house with my brother and my mother and the baby and that **!
He does things like if your room is not clean you won't have wifi for a week! And when we say this is clean for me he just shouts and say that children should just shut up and do what the adults are telling them to do.. WTF ?! I mean i am 18 (and i work but i also have learn to college so i do not earn that much money that i can move out) but i am smarter than him and i am sire i know more about life than him. And he always do this kind of things with me and my brother and the only thing that is missing (and than he will be like my real father) that he has to punch me in the face..and we are afraid. Even my mom.. and i just teally want to kill him or myself! Because i can not wait 3 years to finish school and move out!
(Sorry for the bad english-this is not my motherlanguage)
Idiots taking wifi and telling ppl to shut up isn't abuse
First off, an account with this m.o. or similar is common ; meaning your mother didn't fall in love with him. Seriously, she is most likely loving the man's ** & the amazing way he is drilling her ** with it.. THAT is a even money bet. You may be surprised at how shallow that makes your mother appear however many covert, candid studies indicate that if women would at least occasionally express their genuine feelings, one would be astonished at how often their emotional sexual feelings are an elevated priority..
Dear Teen,
Let your Mom and other older family members in your generational family know what is going on. Call 1-800-4ACHILD and report the child abuse that you are being victimized by. They will connect you to child protective authorities in you state. They will get you help. You teacher and school guidance counselor can also help. Do this today and save yourself and your family from any further abuse. Please let us know how things work out.
Oooh, boo-hoo-hooooo!! I'm an innocent CHILD and I need PROTECTION!!
Hey! I'm 18, that makes me an ADULT! I can do what I want!!
OP, time's up. You no longer get to have it both ways. Your manipulative teen years are permanently behind you. Time to develop a better strategy for dealing with the real world. (Just to make things easier for you, the clock's ticking on using bouncing bewbs and alligator tears to get your way. Try using your brain once in a while, because that's all you're going to have in your favor in a few short years)
Punching in the face is violent and wrong. Does he provide for the family? Does he sacrifice his time for the family? If he does, he is not as bad as you feel he is
No, he's worse. No adult should ever abuse a child even he helps to support him.
If he smokes in the car and graphically threatens you if you cough or roll down a window, that's abuse.
If he backhands you hard enough to leave a bruise on your face and won't take you to the doctor or even apologize, that's abuse.
If he prevents you from bathing more than once a week because that's how HE was raised, that's abuse.
Want more ACTUAL examples?
Shut your ** holster, get your legally (but not emotionally or mentally) mature a$$ out of his house, and begin to discover what the REAL world is like. Since you're like oh so smart, this shouldn't be hard. Easier than trying to cadge sympathy from strangers by whining on an anonymous site, anyway.