Hard to find women to date.

I came out as lesbian 4 years ago, (I'm 19.) and I still have never had a girlfriend. I have kissed/made out girls, but never been in a relationship with one. I've tried online dating but no girls are interested in me. I have several mental illnesses and chronic illness that keeps me from leaving the house a whole lot. Which, I feel like is the problem. They aren't okay with those things, and so no one gives me a chance.

I do want to go out on dates, and I would put the effort in, do as much as I can to be able to leave and go on a date, if any girls were interested in me. I can find hundreds of womens profiles interesting, and could have a million things in common, but, nope. None ever give me the time of day, not even a conversation.

Maybe it's because I'm ugly, I don't know.

It's frustrating to say the least. I'm a huge romantic, and I just want to take a step into finding someone to love! I know, I know, "You're young." I'm aware. I would rather find someone while I'm young, then spend years alone.

Don't really want advice, just, needed to vent.

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  • I hope meghan markle and dumbum royals have to go eat dirt after all this buzzing year of shoving it down our neck with their kids a**** up in the air and c**** weddings that make you want to puke over them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFYDbPdQ9y8 I hate that old mean queen she doesn't care about people and what a towfaced lot, she is putting us all in h*** and she should be put in the h*** we have lived due to her and go and punch them all on their weddings and parades. i wish someone would puke over them. I hope someone p****** on every one of your parades. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCqMuM7jh2o. she knows she is on the way out. how many weddings can a niggar want in a decade meghan? I mean really, 1 annullment, several lovers like a w**** since school and a new husband every 3 years! and she is so innocent and unspoiled, right, sure. harrys daddy c** time with his w**** poster nude bride. yeh. koostarkass can now marry andrew and they can all do p*** then. i wish they knew limpy and lonely like the rest of us, and poverty and illness. it wouldn't hurt them to go ignored.

  • Good luck

  • I don't mean this as mean, but maybe it would be better if you put effort into yourself first. Find some activities outside of the house. Interesting people attract people

  • Hang in there.

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