Hard to find women to date.

I came out as lesbian 4 years ago, (I'm 19.) and I still have never had a girlfriend. I have kissed/made out girls, but never been in a relationship with one. I've tried online dating but no girls are interested in me. I have several mental illnesses and chronic illness that keeps me from leaving the house a whole lot. Which, I feel like is the problem. They aren't okay with those things, and so no one gives me a chance.

I do want to go out on dates, and I would put the effort in, do as much as I can to be able to leave and go on a date, if any girls were interested in me. I can find hundreds of womens profiles interesting, and could have a million things in common, but, nope. None ever give me the time of day, not even a conversation.

Maybe it's because I'm ugly, I don't know.

It's frustrating to say the least. I'm a huge romantic, and I just want to take a step into finding someone to love! I know, I know, "You're young." I'm aware. I would rather find someone while I'm young, then spend years alone.

Don't really want advice, just, needed to vent.

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  • Good luck

  • I don't mean this as mean, but maybe it would be better if you put effort into yourself first. Find some activities outside of the house. Interesting people attract people

  • Hang in there.

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