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What Is Wrong With Me?
Honestly, I don't know what the ** is wrong with me. I'm bisexual, and I'm almost okay with it. I'm completely in support of the gay/trams community, but I'm scared to actually identity as a part of it. To make matters worse, I'm in love with this girl who could not be more straight. We have been friends for so long and I just want to grab her face and kiss her. Obviously she doesn't like me, she's this well-of uptown pretty girl while I'm a mess. What the ** is wrong with me? Why do I feel this way? It's so stupid.
What is it with lgbtq types that you have to create even more drama?
sometimes in life, you like someone who doesn't return your feelings. that happens to -everyone,- not just special bi snowflakes who are "scared to identify" or whatever. you're "Family" whether you like it or not, so stop thinking you're better than and accept your tribe. then walk it off and go find someone who is into chicks. it's not hard, especially in this day and age.
^So much this.
People used to not want to talk about s3x of any kind; there is still a bit of that mentality out there. I mean, you can't even type out the word on this site! Hello, CP? The 1950s called-- they want their Hays Code values back.
But now we're enjoying the opposite extreme, where people still make a big deal out of s3x, but they're all jockeying to be more special and edgy than the next person.
Ooh, you're bi. Ooh, you're gay. Ooh, you're fluid. Ooh, you're LGBQTKRIDN%ISNG. Big. Effing. DEAL.
You're so desperate for validation and attention that the rainbow flag isn't enough for you anymore-- you have to have a special one for whichever sexu@l identity you're wearing today.
And that's where the vast majority of your sexu@l energy goes these days-- not so much doing the deed but shrieking from the rooftops (or at least Facebook) about Your Sexu@l Identity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Be who you are, love who you want. But jayzus hopscotching keerist, shut the fvck UP about it! WE. DON'T. GIVE. A. $HIT. Focus more on loving the one/s you're with and less about getting Likes for it. Idiots!
Pretty girls are easy. You can have her.
Hope you doin`t get a pretty one who`s been broken. They are smarter but not much (still belives in LURVE).
It's normal we all have our secret crushes doesn't mean we will act on it. Just take it one day at a time. One day your going to meet someone with mutual feeling as you.
Don't worry im bi and asexual and since i prefer fantasy over the real thing ive been called weird by men and fake gay by females so i am who i am. Be proud of yourself. I dont openly flaunt it but its no secret to my friends. I hate labels and prefer to just be seen for who i am not the bi girl, or the asexual girl... just me
Chica I am bisexual also and I can completely relate. I was scared to identify at first too. It's hard in today's society but your real friends will still be there. You'll still be you. And as far as the girl goes all I can say is I couldn't be more helpless. It's your choice to just confess or hide it. (What if she is secretly bi or questions her sexuality)