Night out to do what we want
After 5 years of marriage things were getting a bit boring so I suggested that we each get one night a month to go out and do what we want, at first my wife did not think that it was a good idea but it took awhile but I convinced her to try it. It's been 2 years now and I think I got laid about 3 times. However my wife comes home really late if she makes it home at all and usually with her panties full of c**. I've checked around and found she normally goes down to bars frequented by black men. S** was not what it used to be with her I have trouble giving her an o***** now. I've suggested that we stop going out and getting laid but she does not want to stop what should I do.