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My girlfriend wants me to stop masturbating
My gf says she cant accept a proposal of marriage until I show I can abstain for two months and then if I lapse any wedding date would be pushed back by 10 months.
She says she wants a marriage based on love not ** and that she will not be using birth control and we will only have ** to produce a child.
I know this is what I want too but I am really struggling. We pray daily together on the phone or in person. We have family conference with her parents where we pray for my strength. Her father has not had ** since she was conceived and they say that shows men don't actually need **. But I am too weak. I only can go 2 weeks before I lapse and then I feel so week and useless and have to confess to her and we pray.
** is a natural feeling that nobody can avoid. but hang in there till you're married, it won't be long before then. In your marriage,the desicion should be murual in making any desicion. If you don't want to make a family right away, she should use birth control and not make you wait for ** when you want to hold off on having a family. That wouldn't be right. If she doesn't listen to you call off the wedding because she doesn't sound like wife material or understand what marriage is all about. What religion is she anyhow? She sounds like she is Amish or that she's living in the 1700s when everyone was ignorant and way too strict.
Your ** drive is a gift from God, and to deny it is to refuse one of His gifts. Your wife and her father may have been designed without a ** drive. You are not however. If you do continue and get married to her, you can expect many years of having the same struggle you're having right now. The only way to fix it would be to modify your body, either by removing your testes or going through some kind of hormone therapy. Both are unnatural and modify the way that God intended you to be. I would suggest you stop feeling guilty for who you are, and find a wife who also has a ** drive.
Thanks.
Thankyou.
Bless your heart. Find another girl.
Leave! ** is a must in a marriage. Who the ** cares what God will think he not real. What is real is your ** for **,which is something both a man and a woman needs. Love is just a chemical produced by the brain its not a magical force, prayer will not get rid of an ** only proper ** will.
Tell het to grow up or forget wedding
Is she hot? I would rather do her than myself.