My girlfriend wants me to stop masturbating

My gf says she cant accept a proposal of marriage until I show I can abstain for two months and then if I lapse any wedding date would be pushed back by 10 months.

She says she wants a marriage based on love not s** and that she will not be using birth control and we will only have s** to produce a child.

I know this is what I want too but I am really struggling. We pray daily together on the phone or in person. We have family conference with her parents where we pray for my strength. Her father has not had s** since she was conceived and they say that shows men don't actually need s**. But I am too weak. I only can go 2 weeks before I lapse and then I feel so week and useless and have to confess to her and we pray.

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  • Not a good omen. If you think she's controlling/dictatorial now, wait until you've done the 'until death do us part...'

  • Your s** drive is a gift from God, and to deny it is to refuse one of His gifts. Your wife and her father may have been designed without a s** drive. You are not however. If you do continue and get married to her, you can expect many years of having the same struggle you're having right now. The only way to fix it would be to modify your body, either by removing your testes or going through some kind of hormone therapy. Both are unnatural and modify the way that God intended you to be. I would suggest you stop feeling guilty for who you are, and find a wife who also has a s** drive.

  • Thankyou.

  • Thanks.

  • Bless your heart. Find another girl.

  • Thanks for listening its really appreciated.

  • I'm a woman, and giving you this advice. M*********. In secret, if you have to. But its unhealthy for a man to not m*********. Trust me, her father might not have had s** since she was born. But he has jerked off. Even as a woman myself, its almost impossible not to m********* at least twice a week.

  • Leave! S** is a must in a marriage. Who the f*** cares what God will think he not real. What is real is your l*** for s**,which is something both a man and a woman needs. Love is just a chemical produced by the brain its not a magical force, prayer will not get rid of an erection only proper s** will.

  • I'm a submissive husband in what is known as a wife led marriage. My wife is absolutely in charge. She makes all the big decisions. In the area of s** she has o****** from my tongue or finger. I am not allowd to o*****. Its been over 6 years since I had an o*****. We have a plastic sheeth that goes over my p**** so I don't get too stimulated when we have penetrative s**. Our marriage is sustained by love and desire and closeness.

  • Tell het to grow up or forget wedding

  • Is she hot? I would rather do her than myself.

  • RUN!!! Seriously, if this is already what she's coming at you with imagine your future my dear!

  • My girlfriend said the same thing and I withdrew my marriage proposal. You better do the same thing.

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