Mothers in the best interests of the child
Men get blamed for almost all abuse. Rightly so. When men abuse they do it for selfish reasons. BUT the unbalance here is that women and mothers seem to get away with what I would consider abusive behaviour and no one says anything or they even congratulate each other.
For example one day I stood with some mothers at a school social function and one of them was saying how she knew her kid needed medicating (code for drug the kid up and make him a zombie) and she had to take him to 4 doctors before one of them agreed with her and prescribed the stuff.
My wife chooses our kids clothes. If I say it would be nice for our daughter to wear a dress then she will make comment about inappropriate for middle aged men to be selecting a girls clothes yet it is perfectly OK for her to put her in one thing one day and different thing another day including mini skirts so b***** this idea of 'inappropriate' its just all about her control.