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i'm getting married in a month and 2 months ago I slept with another man. who i still see. i know i have to but i am not 100% confident i am going to be able to stop seeing him. I am completely in love with my husband to be but can't stop myself from getting giddy when i see this other man.

I know in time i will forget about him. I have made the decision today to not see him again. it hurts but its my choice.

just had to get this off my chest. thanks all

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  • Do not get married! Problem solved!

  • You should not marry a person, because you think that you are in love them. Personally, you should tell your fiancé, before he finds out. There has to be a reason that you are cheating him. Why not make the correct decision. Why are you so up set about leaving this other man? Because he offers you some that you want or believe that you need. It sounds like you fiancé, because he is safe. You can always run back to him that is not a reason to marry someone. You and your fiancé should go to marriage counseling; Maybe you can figure out why your want something else.

    If that is not an option, then why add to the divorce rate; you obliviously will not be happy with your fiancé. You will suffer in a marriage that you don’t want because you are too scared to admit the truth about yourself. You still want to have dates and cheat; then go out and do it, but don’t let some person suffer because he loves you.
    You should not marry a person, because you think that you are in love them. Personally, you should tell your fiancé, before he finds out. There has to be a reason that you are cheating him. Why not make the correct decision. Why are you so up set about leaving this other man? Because he offers you some that you want or believe that you need. It sounds like you fiancé, because he is safe. You can always run back to him that is not a reason to marry someone. You and your fiancé should go to marriage counseling; Maybe you can figure out why your want something else.

    If that is not an option, then why add to the divorce rate; you obliviously will not be happy with your fiancé. You will suffer in a marriage that you don’t want because you are too scared to admit the truth about yourself. You still want to have dates and cheat; then go out and do it, but don’t let some person suffer because he loves you.

  • At least you are trying. I would think twice about getting married though, maybe just postpone it until you are done wanting more.

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