Third people ...my boyfriend, me and his ex living together..
I got one confession, I really don't know who I can share with, hope it would be heard and understand by someone who has the same situation with me.
It was 2 years in long distance relationship with my boyfriend before I left my country to come with him.I left everything behind, hope for a new change in the future. During 2 years, he came back twice a years, we also traveled together to Thai LAN.And as we chat everyday, I know he own his apartment in the capital ,living alone and he is a doctor.Everything is very stable.
The very first day when I came, I stayed in his parent's house in his hometown. My aim is to see his dad, and enjoy the summer in this beautiful countryside.He also has 3 weeks for holiday, we had a really good time together.
Nothing happened until one months staying and I asked him I wanted to go to stay in his apartment. At that moment, I know the true story. He is actually living with his ex girlfriend and they have been stocked to each others for 10 years.That was too socked to me.He also said he couldn't say it until I was here.However, his ex and him just stay as roommate coz they haven't had s** for long time.
Guess what?? It is a month I have been in his apartment, 3 people together and I had to control myself a lot coz this house is full of their stuff and memories.I feel like I was the third stupid girl.
Until now, I still feel very unpleasant when thinking about my life so far. Because there is some problems and his ex has a job near the apartment, so it is hard for her to move out as well as they have been in that apartment for 6 years.Living and being with her become the habit, it can not be change or give away immediately. They also sleep in same bed...I got my own bed and sleep alone in his office room.
I know, not many people can understand this situation, that's why I hope, someone who have ever been or have any experiences about it, please guide me, givee more energy to get through this situation. I love him, he loves me too but this situation is hard for him to solve.He can not even asked his ex to move out.