When I tell people I'm not ready to be with someone is because I refuse to cheat. I have no intentions of playing with anyone's feelings. It isn't going to be my fault if you're hurting about me thinking about my past once in a while. Even though it isn't that big of a deal, I am still not ready. This is just a healing process that will take time. When I say "no" I truly mean it. Mainly for your best. It's important and they must respect the boundaries.