Losing control ...........

My wife and I have been married for almost two years. For twelve years before that, she was a party girl. A pro. She flew around the world, going to parties thrown by the super rich and extremely famous, and living off one or more wealthy men who paid all her living and traveling expenses. I met her in San Diego while I was on vacation there, and she was on a rolling five-day party, and we hit it off. She complained about her lifestyle, said she wanted out, etc., etc., etc. She flew home with me, just to get away from the life for a few days. After two weeks, she said she wanted to move in, so we moved her in. Three months later, I asked her to marry me. She said yes, and was thrilled to be doing something normal and conventional. Now, during this summer, she got invited to go to a party in Reykjavik, and then another in Amsterdam, by a very close girlfriend she used to work these parties with. Over my objection, she went, saying it would be "just this once", and that she wouldn't f*** while she was gone, just play. She was gone three weeks. When she came home, she had obviously been f******, because her p**** was stretched out like crazy, and even her sphincter was loose. A week later, she "asked" if she could go to Tokyo. I said no, for the obvious reason, but she said she was going anyway. Now her phone calendar has notes for ten trips -- all without me -- between now and the holidays, when we were supposed to go visit my parents. She's clearly either back in the party life, or returning to it, and she's certainly f****** lots of men (or at least one with a giant c***). I thought she wanted to be here, to be with me, and that made me so happy. Now, I'm losing it, and I feel so worthless.


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  • Can you go with her and share the d*** and p**** around?

  • No, unfortunately, that option is not available. None of the women are allowed to bring men with them. As you might expect, they CAN bring other women with them, even if they are the significant others, as long as the other women are ready to f***.

  • Cut her loose....

  • Dump the w****. Let her go wherever, then, use that time to pack up her s*** and get rid of it. Change the locks. She'll come home unknowingly single, so she can have all the party life she wants. Toss her well-f***** ass to the curb. And tell your friends why.

  • The angry part of me wants to do just this. But I'm not sure I can follow through with it, because the other part wants her to come home and stay home.

  • I think you have two options. Either treat her like s***. Take charge and dominate her. Force her to do your will. be demanding and in charge.
    Or quietly roll over and leave.

  • Unfortunately, she's not one to be dominated; she just laughs it off. Leaving seems like what I really SHOULD do, but I think I'll first have to get over being in love with her. To be honest, though, she's making NOT loving her easier every time she leaves the house with luggage.

  • Sad for you, she's one of those women who are either addicted to s**, or addicted to drama, or addicted to attention. Sounds like she's all three. Very sorry, but this is headed in a very detrimental direction for you. Time to bail, I'm afraid.

  • I think you're right about her addictions: she's likely all three.

  • It's over.

  • I hope this isn't true, but it does seem probable.

  • Your f*****.
    Time to move on.

  • Get evidence then divorce

  • Divorce and move on.

  • I would hate to divorce her. She's smart and beautiful and unbelievably sexy. I couldn't believe my luck just having her agree to go out on a date with me when we met in San Diego, much less having her move in, and then agreeing to marry me. Now that I seem to be losing her, I just feel like a total loser. Because I am.

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