If he truly loves
..me then he should work out everything with his ex-gf. The reason why I am saying this is because I don't want him bringing up his ex while we're together nor do I want his ex to interfere in our relationship. I wouldn't mind if he wants to get back with her because what's the point of being with someone whose heart is in someone else's hand? I know by heart that I deserve someone better and not settleing with anyone less. I woul never want his ex creating problems between us nor would I want him to interfere in her future. It's necessary to end the last chapter in order to begin a new one. You can't move on until the last chapter is ended and understood well. You would never want your relationship stuck in a love triangle. Although I'll still be waiting for my right person. If he's not the one then it'll be someone else.
Sure, you should close one door before opening up another. But what if you find someone and they run a business with an ex or share a child, you're going to have to be confident enough in your relationship that you can trust them. There are even occasions where exes are just friends and have both moved on. At some point, if you can't handle it that is your own insecurity that you need to work on. Now if it's not over between the two, then definitely move on and don't get tangled in that messy web.
There are no second thoughts. If that person has a child or is with someone else, then I would never want to take their place. I don't have the right.
I meant that the romantic relationship is over, but the exes still have to interact because of a child and/or they own a business together. And neither are looking to get back together. Would you be able to handle that?
If he has a kid then no! I wrote it in my confession that I'm not setteling for anyone less. I don't deserve this.
He does not truely love you.
He loves ** with you! period. full stop.
He doesn't. I he truly did.... you don't deserve to know everything. Please think before you comment next time. Thank you! (:
I second the above comment: this guy doesn't love you nor does it seem he thinks highly of you and the relationship he has with you. Yes, we don't know you or your situation, but it's evident from what you've written here that you do deserve better. He isn't over his ex. Anyone would and should feel privileged to be with you. But you know all this already, don't you? But feelings are getting in the way. Love et al is one ** of a concoction. Good luck x
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Your comment wasn't necessary. I wonder if you did it out of boredom?!