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I hate my sister
I hate my little sister. When we were kids I'd protect her and I loved her but now we're adults and I can't stand the sight of her. She and her children currently live with me and she's a horrible mother, she calls them names, feeds them junk food 24/7 and gets mad whenever me or my mother tell her anything. Her husband is no different, they constantly cheat on one another, are both physically and verbally abusive and to top it all off, they've had c.p.s. called on them several times only to have the social worker let them keep the kids. What can I do in a situation like this, the proper authorities have come in, they've had all the evidence needed and they still allow them to put the kids in these situations. I've sacrificed my whole life taking care of my family, I'm almost 30 and I just want to not have to worry about them anymore, I want to live, I want freedom but I can't get it. I'm afraid I'll die before I get my chance at living.
You have done so much for them. You have given your time and your heart to the adults and their kids. Is there a way that you can run off "to school" somewhere and depart the whole sorry situation? Your life starts now and you deserve to launch it on your own. Find a way to make some new separate plans tat remove you from them and it will be easier than a giant confrontation. Good luck to you! You deserve your OWN PLAN!
Stop enabling their behavior. Kids can stay, but they must go. New set of rules and anything else will not be tolerated. Since they are considered tenants and you possibly don't have a rental agreement they will have rights as tenants. You can speak with a lawyer about how to proceed to evict. Or you can move out...It's not going to be easy, but you have to take care of you. Your sister is selfish. Are you certain they aren't on drugs? Good luck it sounds like a difficult situation.