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My husband is an idiot
I am 38 years old, Been married for 14 years and just realized my husband is an idiot, I have never since we have been together, Not even while dating done anything in any way shape or form to give him the idea that I would ever approve of a three way.
Last weekend we went out partying with some friends, One of his friends stayed at our place and yes, I was drunk, He was drunk, His friend was drunk, Yes I am flirty, That's my personality, That's how I have always been but that's no reason to think I would ever do anything.
We got home, Crawled into bed and I was feeling a bit frisky so we started messing around, We were having ** on our side with him behind me and his friend who I have known literally as long as my husband, I met him the same night, He walked right in to our room, Buck naked, Full ** and walked up to the edge of the bed and stood there, I stopped and looked at him then looked back at my husband who was still trying to ** me as I tried to cover up, He leaned in thinking he was being all smooth and whispered "** his **", WTF, Really, I was in shock and at a loss for words, I couldn't believe what was happening, I looked back at his friend as he stood there shaking his ** in my face and finally mustered the words "** no", I managed to wiggle away from my husband and went to the walk in closet, I had my back to the door and bent over to get some clothes out of the dresser and felt some hands cup my ** and a wiener poking me from behind, I thought it was my husband and stood up shoving back, I couldn't even say anything, I didn't have words at the moment but he groped my ** again with one hand and reached down rubbing my **, I spun around to give my husband ** and it was his friend.
I was trying not to completely freak out so I pushed him back and said "No, No, No" and quickly put some clothes on, I told him to get out and he did, I came out of the closet and my husband was till in bed, I freaked out on him as quietly as I could and all he could say was "I just thought maybe we could try it", I told him "that's something you might want to have a conversation about, Not have your friend walk in on us and then molest me in the closet", I explained that no matter what it was never going to happen and what they did was SOOOOOO wrong.
How can he be so stupid.
The problem is her husband giving consent to his friend, to molest his wife without her consent. That's the problem!
The consensus here outside of a few sexist dames will eventually be that there wasn't a problem with what transpired. One genuine fact is that most if not all women need a man for decision making, due to their distracting emotional issues. Case closed.
Lol case closed in your opinion, but it's not as simple as an open and closed case, when everyone has different personal perspective's and opinions on regards to the content of this confession. It's only deemed a closed case by someone whom is ignorant and has narrowminded views like yourself.
It's a shame really, because it's always good to keep an open mind about everything and anything in general. When a person stops/or isn't open minded to begin with and isn't willing to perceive all angles of a situation, that's when the person becomes cynical and ignorant. It's never too late, to change and keep learning.
One can never presume to know everything and think they're accurate about everything. To do so, would be truly stupid.