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My husband is an idiot
I am 38 years old, Been married for 14 years and just realized my husband is an idiot, I have never since we have been together, Not even while dating done anything in any way shape or form to give him the idea that I would ever approve of a three way.
Last weekend we went out partying with some friends, One of his friends stayed at our place and yes, I was drunk, He was drunk, His friend was drunk, Yes I am flirty, That's my personality, That's how I have always been but that's no reason to think I would ever do anything.
We got home, Crawled into bed and I was feeling a bit frisky so we started messing around, We were having ** on our side with him behind me and his friend who I have known literally as long as my husband, I met him the same night, He walked right in to our room, Buck naked, Full ** and walked up to the edge of the bed and stood there, I stopped and looked at him then looked back at my husband who was still trying to ** me as I tried to cover up, He leaned in thinking he was being all smooth and whispered "** his **", WTF, Really, I was in shock and at a loss for words, I couldn't believe what was happening, I looked back at his friend as he stood there shaking his ** in my face and finally mustered the words "** no", I managed to wiggle away from my husband and went to the walk in closet, I had my back to the door and bent over to get some clothes out of the dresser and felt some hands cup my ** and a wiener poking me from behind, I thought it was my husband and stood up shoving back, I couldn't even say anything, I didn't have words at the moment but he groped my ** again with one hand and reached down rubbing my **, I spun around to give my husband ** and it was his friend.
I was trying not to completely freak out so I pushed him back and said "No, No, No" and quickly put some clothes on, I told him to get out and he did, I came out of the closet and my husband was till in bed, I freaked out on him as quietly as I could and all he could say was "I just thought maybe we could try it", I told him "that's something you might want to have a conversation about, Not have your friend walk in on us and then molest me in the closet", I explained that no matter what it was never going to happen and what they did was SOOOOOO wrong.
How can he be so stupid.
To quote the great Reagan, "there you go again". You keep accentuating how uneducated you are by stating more of these sweeping generalizations that lack any foundation. First liberal, you need to wake up & smell the roses. You ARE quite dense upstairs, as you demonstrate very well in your reply. On The Contrary & as you documented here, your leading, flirtatious routine is inviting enough & indeed responsible for landing another man naked & nearly into bed with you & your spouse. It is also & obviously an invitation for him to nearly penetrate you with his manhood when you conveniently bent over for him. You can disagree all you want girl however the inviting nature of your actions, habits & demeanor easily overrule any verbal requirement.
Don't even bother with foolish permissions here ; due to the female gender losing so much credibility, all sexual "abuse" & "assault" has become no fault. As me dear departed father used to say : "you write your own ticket" & "you make your own luck".
You've misused your father's saying's, to accommodate your misguided and ignorant opinions. Disrespectful really
Poor reply at best. Forget the diversion. Again, you can disagree all you want however the main message is spot on & you know it, regardless.
Lol the main message is spot on in your opinion, because it's your opinion and you wrote it. That's why you agree with it, which is fair enough. Like I've stated before, I respect your opinion but don't agree with it :) You could at least appreciate that, seeing that you agree with your own opinion.
Okay girl, I appreciate knowing the reality of you being so buried in your emotions over what you posted that all you can do is mainly disagree with my healthy, accurate conclusions. You are so buried in those emotions that you don't even know WHY you disagree. It's just convenient to state that in deference for now. I get that. You don't know what you prefer or when you prefer it sexually which is why it further supports your spouse's decision regarding what occurred & when. If you're ever able to settle your emotions regarding this, in my opinion you will welcome it more in the future.
I'm sure the OP wrote, "she was making out with her husband" when their friend entered their room/space naked. How did she lead that guy on from another room?
Are you serious! And because she bent over to pick her clothes up, that in your mind means, she was inviting the guy to sexually molest her! Once again, are you serious.
I bend over all the time, if I need to pick something up or do whatever, unaware and oblivious of whoever is watching. Does that mean I'm inviting some highly sexed individual to sexually molest me?! Once again, are you serious! When she bent over she might have been so incensed with anger due to her husbands admission and the violation of his friend, that she didn't think he may have misconstrued the situation because of his overactive horniness and idiotic imagination. Have you considered that, It's not her fault?!
Once again are you being serious?!