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I Still Love The Person Who Catfished Me
We met on an internet site, It was not a dating site. But she messaged me and at first I just ignored it, her picture was a young beautiful woman say early 30's as I am a little older early 40's, I thought it was a mistake. But she was persistent so I finall answered, the first day we talked for over 12 hours straight and a relationship bloosomed from there, she said I love you first and I was shocked and had to access my feelings and after I said the words I was hooked. Long story short, I began to suspect she was lying some things she said were just to farfetched to be plausible. So I started google searching the images she sent me ( ones I never asked for) my heart sank, I forgave her because I loved her only to have her do it again and again. As much as it pained me, I finally broke all communication with her. But my confession is I still think and dream about her everyday and I know I still love her and always will, OR who I thought she was not the real person behind the screen. My heart doesn't know the difference.
I would focus on someone else. She may be the one you're looking for and she wouldn't be fake. Forget that ** and move on.
I made a woman I used to date, but broke up with, fall in love with my catfish person..May not have been nice, but sure was fun! I also noticed she said many of the same things to the fake me as the real me.. I was ballsy on many occasions, bringing up things only someone who actually knew her would know (her favorite nail polish color was gold, and, though she had small lips, was an excellent kisser), and she didn't catch on.. Had her calling my catfish person "love", "honeybun" and, just like when she was with me, "hot stuff"..
Now that I've reconnected with her, for real, I'll never tell her about the other me, and..The catfish guy seems to have forgotten about her..
Meet the real person. Once you have a face to put with all the interactions (a real one) it may give your feelings a reality check. If you still love her after meeting her, then perhaps there may be something to the relationship after all.
Come back to me baby. I haven't been able to stop thinking about you either. I only sent you that fake picture because I thought you would be intimidated by my real beauty. Everything else was real and true. I'm so sorry I deceived you. Please forgive me. I love you.
Like the other poster said get over it. You've been conned. Get away from this person.
You need to grow up. Not trying to be mean, but you're in your 40's, but you have the emotional maturity of a little boy. You think you're "in love" with this imaginary fake pretend person? C'mon, man, snap out of it!