My first wife when frustrated would order me to lay on my back and tuck my knees into my chest, then she kneeled over me and spanked me, then it turned to an order to get undressed and assume your position. The spankings got longer and harder at times. Then came the hair brush or anything she wanted to try. It hurt bad or good. The submission and leaving my bare ** to her total control was awesome! I hope my fiance gets into this but I don't want to scare her off. Any suggestions about bring it up?