Is this the same woman who posted a confession a few months ago stating you wanted to take him from his wife?
This was almost 20yrs ago, but I was in a relationship like this, sleeping with the husband of a friend of mine, wanting him to leave her and move here. I let myself get pregnant, trying to get my man to leave home and come to me, but even that didn't get him away from her. I eventually got an abortion. And he eventually dumped me........not for his wife, but for another mistress. I hated him, I hated his wife, and I hated his mistress. I still do.
You are why MGTOW has happened . You are a horror.
Self - inflicted, "you reap what you sew!"
Aww, let's play the world's smallest violin for you. Also, what tf did you expect? If they cheat WITH you, they will cheat ON you. DUHHHHHH
I would leave my wife in a heartbeat for my mistress, but I can't leave while the kids are still so young. Eventually, I'll make the move........if the mistress will still have me at that point. If not, I'll probably stay where I am. I actually do love them both, in different ways, but I'd rather spend my time with the mistress.
Fool
Lesson here is excercise and ** diet if you let yourself go there are many problems that follow that are beyond just not being attracted anymore.
^true dat^
You're a brit, it's about time! Welcome brother or sister x
:) Too kind! :)
You know they're a brit because they wear their stupidity like a badge of honor.
...**.....
Actually, that's what "Americans" do! Trump signifies that!
I'm in a similar situation with my man. I'm 19 years younger than his wife, less than half her body weight, twice as intelligent, and a thousand percent better in bed. I'd love for him to leave her and come to me full-time, but it really doesn't matter if he does or doesn't: what he and I have together, and what we ARE together, is beautiful and filled with true love. I don't care about anything else.
Yea yeah
It's true for me, too. His wife is a joke.
What a star house wrecker - bet he has some cash gold digger
Too bad, because obviously your being thinner and smarter and sluttier in bed isn't enough for him to leave her for you.
As usual, you "life support systems for a pu$$y" type women overestimate your usefulness to the rest of society. What a pitiful way to exist!
I stay with my wife because I love her. I ** my ** toy mistress because it's exciting. But I don't love her in the same way I love my wife. She is a ** toy and so long as she understands then it is fine. If she somehow thinks I even want to leave my wife then she is very mistaken.
"You don't love your mistress, in the same way you love you wife" - that means you love your mistress aswell as your wife, but it's a different sort of love, **! It's a lowdown, dirty, nasty, ** love, that's what it is!
If you don't intend to be honest with your wife, at least tell her it's okay for her to ** other people, I'm sure she might enjoy getting ** by a younger stud with a bigger **! You can't be the only one getting some side action, in your marriage. I'm sure your wife is bored of your tired ** aswell and wants some excitement!
I promise you: when I put my ** in another man, he can't even remember his wife's NAME. Competition? Pffffft.
You seem to think every guy likes ** lol
Far more of them love ** than you might think. I've seduced several married guys, and made them all happier than their wives ever had.
You could never compete with each other, because he's using and disrespecting both of you. If you like a man that does that to you both, you're in denial.
It's insane to say there's no competition going on. Of COURSE there is a competition going on. Every time he comes to me, I win. What happens the rest of the time doesn't matter. Every time he comes to me, he's saying that he wants to be with me, not her. I get ALL of the quality time, and she gets what's left over. It's so sad for her. I don't need a man that isn't "taken": I need the one I have, and I have him as often as I want him. Yes, it would make more sense for him just to stay here, because he is where he wants -- and needs -- to be. But he doesn't have to stay here full-time for this to be his primary relationship. There is a competition for his heart and mind, and she has lost that. I've won.
I feel the same way about the married man I'm currently involved with. I'm 22, he's 51, his wife is 31. They have three kids, aged 5, 3 and 2. She's his third wife, and he's her first husband. But even though she's not considered old, she IS older than me, and I know FOR A FACT that she can't compete. She's never been able to compete with me, and she never will, because I do things to him and for him that she can't do. CANNOT do. Like what? Well, I'm a single gay man. Get the picture? :) He cannot get enough of me.
UR **
And?
....same for me........ i own a married man that i work for ........own him ....... he belongs to me completely.... his wife has no idea...............she just thinks he's lost interest in **........boy is SHE wrong!!!!!! :)
^disgusting^ ^horrible^ ^faggotry^ ^sick^
The original commentator is boastful about adultery and other things, which is despicable.
But your prejudice against gay people, is unforgiveable!
That's an ugly hearted trait to have. You must be an ugly person from the inside out. Shame on you!!!
I stay because I love my wife. I have ties to the community. I love my kids.
I play with my ** toy because it's exhilarating. It's hot hot hot. She is like a gym buddy or a dance partner. Great to spank. Great for **. Great to meet clandestine. Great to indulge. To fly to another city and go to the theatre.
She does not need to compete with my wife. My wife is my wife. My ** toy is my ** toy. If my ** toy misbehaves I whip her. If she wishes to leave she can and she has a couple of times and she comes back. Even though she knows the cost of returning is that she must first bend over bare ** up and be whipped very very hard. She crys and the bruising takes several weeks to heal. I make it tough for her.
But she is not my wife. My wife is very vanilla. Conservative. Sexually boring. Very social. A wonderful woman. A great cook. A wonderful mother. Very intelligent. Attractive. She is just a bit busy and not really sexual and that is where my ** toy comes into it.
Don't make excuses for cheating on your wife, it's cowardly and despicable.
You discuss sexual matters with your wife to improve your ** life, you don't use cheating as an solution! What's wrong you? You're a poor excuse for a man!
A ** toy is a ** toy- that's all an affair is. Don't fool yourselves. And don't be mad at the wife or put her down because YOU are being scandalous
Reread my comment you fool, I wasn't putting his wife down. At least get it right, if you're going to state **!
And obviously, you have no reservations about cheating on a loved one. So we have a difference in opinions, which is ok. I'll never agree with you regarding this topic and vice versa. So it doesn't matter what you convey :-) Good day to you
Although the OP seems to be looking for or hoping for something permanent with her man, some women just love the idea of taking a man from another woman, even if it's only temporary. Having him choose you over her, even for a few hours, is thrilling for some women. I know: I'm one of them. I'm okay with him going home: let HER put up with his **, and his moods, and his demands, and his pettiness. Let HER deal with the meaningless **. I get his love, ALL THE TIME. And I get his **. His ** totally belongs to me. ME. I don't even think about him being with her, being at home, being mundane. I get the heat, and it is sooooo much better than anything she gets. I also get all the good birthday gifts, the good Christmas presents, the sports car, the furs, the lingerie, the jewelry, and I get the Valentine dinners that she gave up on years ago. What I get is HIM. What she gets is leftovers. I win.
It's not about winning, you immature fool! You're second best and always will be, compared to your lover's wife! Your a piece of loose/cheap **, nothing more and nothing less!
You have no dignity and respect for yourself, if you did, why lower yourself to your lover's standards?! Find man you that isn't taken or at least a man that's in an open relationship, but not one that's meant to be a loyal husband and so forth. He's in the wrong as well and has more to lose than you do, if his wife finds out. But he could and may be already cheating on you, with a younger and better in bed girl!
Don't kid yourself. He isn't cheating on me, not even with his wife. He wouldn't cheat on me, because he doesn't need to: he gets everything he needs from me. EVERYTHING. Yes, there are younger girls than me, and many are more beautiful than I am. But none of them are better in bed. And none of them are sexier or more skilled or dirtier. They say a man never forgets the nastiest piece of ** he has in his life, and that's what I provide: I do all of the nasty things the wife won't, and that he can't get from other women. I'm better in bed than all of them, so no......he won't stray!!
I don't need to kid myself about anything, you degenerate! I'm not the person in this situation, so that was stupid of you to state!
You however, remain in denial. It's your problem and personal issues, so why share your ** on this site.
Stop stating to others, " don't kid yourself" it's you that's kidding yourself, you delusional **!
When I first started the affair with my women I told her she was my ** toy and I was going to use her. She went through a few phases thinking we were going to end up married. Eventually she understood that was never going to happen
Obviously, she's a dumbfuck. But luckily, there's some women that have common sense! Unfortunately the one you're ** on the side, isn't a smart lady and neither are you!
I'm a married man and I have a separate lover. Even though ** with the mistress / lover is so hot and the relationship with the wife is pretty ordinary, my mistress has had to learn that she is just my ** toy and that I will not be leaving my wife
You deserve an award for confessing this and portraying yourself the meanest idiot
How is he mean or an idiot? For all you know his wife could be ok with him having a mistress. **, she could be ** another guy for that matter. He was up front with his mistress, so how is that mean? She knew what she was getting into.
^this^ is absolutely correct, without exception. even if the wife isn't having her own fun, the mistress knew. she KNEW. communication is always the key. and this guy/responder was upfront and told her the rules. she accepted them and operated under them and so she's bound by them. if she doesn't want to 'share' him with his wife, she can leave at any time and find someone she can keep for her own. it may not be ideal, but that sort of relationship -- based on honesty with the mistress -- is better than many many marriages. i know..... i've been involved with a married man for over 4 years and while, yes, i would prefer to be married to him, he's never lied to me and i've always been treated totally fairly. i have 2 girlfriends who are also mistresses and we all know the score. one of those girls has 3 kids with her man and they are a very very happy family. as the above responder said so perfectly and so so so correctly: we all knew what we were getting into. thanks for posting!
I'm sure you already know the answer to your question, but I'll say it anyway. He doesn't leave her because you're a ** and she's not.
Is this the same woman who posted a confession a few months ago stating you wanted to take him from his wife?
This was almost 20yrs ago, but I was in a relationship like this, sleeping with the husband of a friend of mine, wanting him to leave her and move here. I let myself get pregnant, trying to get my man to leave home and come to me, but even that didn't get him away from her. I eventually got an abortion. And he eventually dumped me........not for his wife, but for another mistress. I hated him, I hated his wife, and I hated his mistress. I still do.
You are why MGTOW has happened . You are a horror.
Self - inflicted, "you reap what you sew!"
Aww, let's play the world's smallest violin for you. Also, what tf did you expect? If they cheat WITH you, they will cheat ON you. DUHHHHHH
I would leave my wife in a heartbeat for my mistress, but I can't leave while the kids are still so young. Eventually, I'll make the move........if the mistress will still have me at that point. If not, I'll probably stay where I am. I actually do love them both, in different ways, but I'd rather spend my time with the mistress.
Fool
Lesson here is excercise and ** diet if you let yourself go there are many problems that follow that are beyond just not being attracted anymore.
^true dat^
You're a brit, it's about time! Welcome brother or sister x
:) Too kind! :)
You know they're a brit because they wear their stupidity like a badge of honor.
...**.....
Actually, that's what "Americans" do! Trump signifies that!
True "not" fool!
Inaccurate
I'm in a similar situation with my man. I'm 19 years younger than his wife, less than half her body weight, twice as intelligent, and a thousand percent better in bed. I'd love for him to leave her and come to me full-time, but it really doesn't matter if he does or doesn't: what he and I have together, and what we ARE together, is beautiful and filled with true love. I don't care about anything else.
Yea yeah
It's true for me, too. His wife is a joke.
What a star house wrecker - bet he has some cash gold digger
Too bad, because obviously your being thinner and smarter and sluttier in bed isn't enough for him to leave her for you.
As usual, you "life support systems for a pu$$y" type women overestimate your usefulness to the rest of society. What a pitiful way to exist!
I stay with my wife because I love her.
I ** my ** toy mistress because it's exciting. But I don't love her in the same way I love my wife. She is a ** toy and so long as she understands then it is fine. If she somehow thinks I even want to leave my wife then she is very mistaken.
"You don't love your mistress, in the same way you love you wife" - that means you love your mistress aswell as your wife, but it's a different sort of love, **! It's a lowdown, dirty, nasty, ** love, that's what it is!
If you don't intend to be honest with your wife, at least tell her it's okay for her to ** other people, I'm sure she might enjoy getting ** by a younger stud with a bigger **! You can't be the only one getting some side action, in your marriage. I'm sure your wife is bored of your tired ** aswell and wants some excitement!
I promise you: when I put my ** in another man, he can't even remember his wife's NAME. Competition? Pffffft.
You seem to think every guy likes ** lol
Far more of them love ** than you might think. I've seduced several married guys, and made them all happier than their wives ever had.
You could never compete with each other, because he's using and disrespecting both of you. If you like a man that does that to you both, you're in denial.
It's insane to say there's no competition going on. Of COURSE there is a competition going on. Every time he comes to me, I win. What happens the rest of the time doesn't matter. Every time he comes to me, he's saying that he wants to be with me, not her. I get ALL of the quality time, and she gets what's left over. It's so sad for her. I don't need a man that isn't "taken": I need the one I have, and I have him as often as I want him. Yes, it would make more sense for him just to stay here, because he is where he wants -- and needs -- to be. But he doesn't have to stay here full-time for this to be his primary relationship. There is a competition for his heart and mind, and she has lost that. I've won.
You are such a **.
Maybe.......but every man loves whores.
Group ** with a kid age 8 all holes stretched by **
You're still in denial lol obviously, there's no competition, because he's ** both of you. He wins.
If there was a competition and you were winning, he'd be with you solely and not return to his wife, after sticking his ** in you. You're a dumbass!
Yeah, he wins. He wins when he comes to me. When he goes home to her, he loses. Thanks for making my point.
Lol your story is fake as **! But I enjoy your fake ** commentary! ** idiot!
2 men dped a dead body off a 10 year old girl
I feel the same way about the married man I'm currently involved with. I'm 22, he's 51, his wife is 31. They have three kids, aged 5, 3 and 2. She's his third wife, and he's her first husband. But even though she's not considered old, she IS older than me, and I know FOR A FACT that she can't compete. She's never been able to compete with me, and she never will, because I do things to him and for him that she can't do. CANNOT do. Like what? Well, I'm a single gay man. Get the picture? :) He cannot get enough of me.
UR **
And?
....same for me........ i own a married man that i work for ........own him ....... he belongs to me completely.... his wife has no idea...............she just thinks he's lost interest in **........boy is SHE wrong!!!!!! :)
^disgusting^ ^horrible^ ^faggotry^ ^sick^
The original commentator is boastful about adultery and other things, which is despicable.
But your prejudice against gay people,
is unforgiveable!
That's an ugly hearted trait to have. You must be an ugly person from the inside out. Shame on you!!!
Very true!
The gay people need to be dropped into volcanos.
He's a user
I stay because I love my wife. I have ties to the community. I love my kids.
I play with my ** toy because it's exhilarating. It's hot hot hot. She is like a gym buddy or a dance partner. Great to spank. Great for **. Great to meet clandestine. Great to indulge. To fly to another city and go to the theatre.
She does not need to compete with my wife. My wife is my wife. My ** toy is my ** toy. If my ** toy misbehaves I whip her. If she wishes to leave she can and she has a couple of times and she comes back. Even though she knows the cost of returning is that she must first bend over bare ** up and be whipped very very hard. She crys and the bruising takes several weeks to heal. I make it tough for her.
But she is not my wife. My wife is very vanilla. Conservative. Sexually boring. Very social. A wonderful woman. A great cook. A wonderful mother. Very intelligent. Attractive. She is just a bit busy and not really sexual and that is where my ** toy comes into it.
Don't make excuses for cheating on your wife, it's cowardly and despicable.
You discuss sexual matters with your wife to improve your ** life, you don't use cheating as an solution! What's wrong you? You're a poor excuse for a man!
A ** toy is a ** toy- that's all an affair is. Don't fool yourselves. And don't be mad at the wife or put her down because YOU are being scandalous
Reread my comment you fool, I wasn't putting his wife down. At least get it right, if you're going to state **!
And obviously, you have no reservations about cheating on a loved one. So we have a difference in opinions, which is ok. I'll never agree with you regarding this topic and vice versa. So it doesn't matter what you convey :-) Good day to you
Although the OP seems to be looking for or hoping for something permanent with her man, some women just love the idea of taking a man from another woman, even if it's only temporary. Having him choose you over her, even for a few hours, is thrilling for some women. I know: I'm one of them. I'm okay with him going home: let HER put up with his **, and his moods, and his demands, and his pettiness. Let HER deal with the meaningless **. I get his love, ALL THE TIME. And I get his **. His ** totally belongs to me. ME. I don't even think about him being with her, being at home, being mundane. I get the heat, and it is sooooo much better than anything she gets. I also get all the good birthday gifts, the good Christmas presents, the sports car, the furs, the lingerie, the jewelry, and I get the Valentine dinners that she gave up on years ago. What I get is HIM. What she gets is leftovers. I win.
It's not about winning, you immature fool!
You're second best and always will be, compared to your lover's wife! Your a piece of loose/cheap **, nothing more and nothing less!
You have no dignity and respect for yourself, if you did, why lower yourself to your lover's standards?! Find man you that isn't taken or at least a man that's in an open relationship, but not one that's meant to be a loyal husband and so forth. He's in the wrong as well and has more to lose than you do, if his wife finds out. But he could and may be already cheating on you, with a younger and better in bed girl!
Don't kid yourself. He isn't cheating on me, not even with his wife. He wouldn't cheat on me, because he doesn't need to: he gets everything he needs from me. EVERYTHING. Yes, there are younger girls than me, and many are more beautiful than I am. But none of them are better in bed. And none of them are sexier or more skilled or dirtier. They say a man never forgets the nastiest piece of ** he has in his life, and that's what I provide: I do all of the nasty things the wife won't, and that he can't get from other women. I'm better in bed than all of them, so no......he won't stray!!
I don't need to kid myself about anything, you degenerate! I'm not the person in this situation, so that was stupid of you to state!
You however, remain in denial. It's your problem and personal issues, so why share your ** on this site.
Stop stating to others, " don't kid yourself" it's you that's kidding yourself, you delusional **!
When I first started the affair with my women I told her she was my ** toy and I was going to use her. She went through a few phases thinking we were going to end up married. Eventually she understood that was never going to happen
Obviously, she's a dumbfuck. But luckily, there's some women that have common sense! Unfortunately the one you're ** on the side, isn't a smart lady and neither are you!
I'm a married man and I have a separate lover. Even though ** with the mistress / lover is so hot and the relationship with the wife is pretty ordinary, my mistress has had to learn that she is just my ** toy and that I will not be leaving my wife
You deserve an award for confessing this and portraying yourself the meanest idiot
How is he mean or an idiot? For all you know his wife could be ok with him having a mistress. **, she could be ** another guy for that matter. He was up front with his mistress, so how is that mean? She knew what she was getting into.
^this^ is absolutely correct, without exception. even if the wife isn't having her own fun, the mistress knew. she KNEW. communication is always the key. and this guy/responder was upfront and told her the rules. she accepted them and operated under them and so she's bound by them. if she doesn't want to 'share' him with his wife, she can leave at any time and find someone she can keep for her own. it may not be ideal, but that sort of relationship -- based on honesty with the mistress -- is better than many many marriages. i know..... i've been involved with a married man for over 4 years and while, yes, i would prefer to be married to him, he's never lied to me and i've always been treated totally fairly. i have 2 girlfriends who are also mistresses and we all know the score. one of those girls has 3 kids with her man and they are a very very happy family. as the above responder said so perfectly and so so so correctly: we all knew what we were getting into. thanks for posting!
I'm sure you already know the answer to your question, but I'll say it anyway. He doesn't leave her because you're a ** and she's not.
Looks like she's already winning....