She competes well enough that she is married to him and you are not.
Because he loves his wife. And you, well you're just a side ** who can be replaced at anytime.
He doesn't appear to love for his wife. Yes, love comes in various forms and the definition of what love means/how a person expresses it, varies from individual to individual. But it appears his version of love, isn't a pure, loyal and all consuming one. Fair enough if his wife knows about it and they have an open agreement about his extra marital sextivities. But if she doesn't, his definition of love is ** warped and misguided!
He just wants to sleep with you. He'll tell you everything you want to hear and tell you how awful his wife is and how their marriage is on the rocks. And if it was really horrible, you would think that he would leave. But he doesn't. Or why doesn't she leave? Think about it. After he's done with you, he always go back to her. You'll never know. The only two people who really know what's going on is marriage is his wife and him. You're nothing to him but the easy lay on the side. That's all you are. It's no strings. You should have more integrity for yourself. Aren't there other men who aren't married and available that you can go after? Seriously.. is he that great? You're not in a real relationship. Anything you have to keep a secret is not a real relationship. It can't survive because you aren't dealing with true day to day issues that you encounter when you're actually dating someone who is available to date and is not keeping secrets. He always has to answer to his wife or make up some excuse to see you. You can't tell people you're dating him or make it public knowledge that you're in a relationship. It's hard to find someone to connect with and when you do, don't you want to tell everyone? But you can't. Why? Because he's married and you are the mistress. Do people brag about that? Also consider, he's cheating on his wife. Don't for one moment think, (if he actually does leave his wife) that he won't cheat on you. There is always someone out there is who is younger, prettier and more available... But you'll just stay with him and waste years of your life on someone who keep you last on his list..right after the family dog.
I must admit much of what you say about me is true. I won't quibble with the rest. Just try to keep in mind that there are countless women in the same shoes as I am ; created just for married men to visit for their extramarital relations. Yes, as a mistress for his pleasure when he chooses. I'm not bragging. Like many other women, I'm just fulfilling my fated purpose to men.
Sheeple **
Don't demean urself like this allowing others to make fun of you without knowing the scenario ...
Too late, that ship has sailed! :)
If your purpose and vocation in life is to be a mistress to many, who are we to judge. But you should at least be smart about it and get paid for your services. If you're going to act whorish, you might as well get paid as one. Be safe and use condoms/birth control, best to be safe than sorry.
Are you sure you're in competition?
She competes well enough that she is married to him and you are not.
Because he loves his wife. And you, well you're just a side ** who can be replaced at anytime.
He doesn't appear to love for his wife. Yes, love comes in various forms and the definition of what love means/how a person expresses it, varies from individual to individual. But it appears his version of love, isn't a pure, loyal and all consuming one. Fair enough if his wife knows about it and they have an open agreement about his extra marital sextivities. But if she doesn't, his definition of love is ** warped and misguided!
He just wants to sleep with you. He'll tell you everything you want to hear and tell you how awful his wife is and how their marriage is on the rocks. And if it was really horrible, you would think that he would leave. But he doesn't. Or why doesn't she leave? Think about it. After he's done with you, he always go back to her. You'll never know. The only two people who really know what's going on is marriage is his wife and him. You're nothing to him but the easy lay on the side. That's all you are. It's no strings. You should have more integrity for yourself. Aren't there other men who aren't married and available that you can go after? Seriously.. is he that great? You're not in a real relationship. Anything you have to keep a secret is not a real relationship. It can't survive because you aren't dealing with true day to day issues that you encounter when you're actually dating someone who is available to date and is not keeping secrets. He always has to answer to his wife or make up some excuse to see you. You can't tell people you're dating him or make it public knowledge that you're in a relationship. It's hard to find someone to connect with and when you do, don't you want to tell everyone? But you can't. Why? Because he's married and you are the mistress. Do people brag about that? Also consider, he's cheating on his wife. Don't for one moment think, (if he actually does leave his wife) that he won't cheat on you. There is always someone out there is who is younger, prettier and more available... But you'll just stay with him and waste years of your life on someone who keep you last on his list..right after the family dog.
I must admit much of what you say about me is true. I won't quibble with the rest. Just try to keep in mind that there are countless women in the same shoes as I am ; created just for married men to visit for their extramarital relations. Yes, as a mistress for his pleasure when he chooses. I'm not bragging. Like many other women, I'm just fulfilling my fated purpose to men.
Sheeple **
Don't demean urself like this allowing others to make fun of you without knowing the scenario ...
Too late, that ship has sailed! :)
If your purpose and vocation in life is to be a mistress to many, who are we to judge. But you should at least be smart about it and get paid for your services. If you're going to act whorish, you might as well get paid as one. Be safe and use condoms/birth control, best to be safe than sorry.