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** with my ex
I've been divorced from my ex for 13 years. I've been remarried for 6. My ex and I never fought but he was out of state much of our marriage for work. He's been back in town for about a year. I haven't told my husband.
Several months ago I ran into him at a bar. I was out with a couple of girls from work. He bought me some drinks and I ended up sleeping with him. I felt horrible and told him we couldn't do it again. I wouldn't dare tell my husband. Now, it's been about 8 months and we are still having **. The more we do it, the easier it is for me.
Try to find a way to let your husband know... tell him you heard your ex was back in town and that you then "had the craziest dream. about having ** with him." See how hubby reacts...
As a Christian my only advice is to let him know you carnally only through the rear, YHWH does not consider this to be ** and it is permissible for a woman to offer her ** to a man in the most dire of circumstances as yours surely is
I don't condone cheating, as its unjustifiable in my opinion. But you aren't me and everyone is different. At least be sexually safe and use condoms/birth control when having ** with your ex and husband, you don't want to transfer any STD's. And you never know, your husband maybe slipping other women or men his ** aswell, so you'd be even.
Some people can separate ** from love. I however think it's connected. But once again, I have different perspectives.
Good luck
It will only continue to get easier and the guilt will leave you completely. I have been having ** with my ex husband on and off for years, My current husband is on the road for up to two weeks at a time. While he is gone my ex fills in for him in our bedroom. I would never want to be back together with my ex but the ** was always great with him and I need ** more than twice a month.
I know exactly how you feel. July is barely half over and I've had ** with my ex husband 4 times.
Use protection if you aren't already, don't be irresponsible.
Your husband is probably ** other women on his business trips. So if that's the case, you're both even :-)
Just remember to use condoms and birth control with your ex and husband, you don't want to get any sexually transmitted diseases and pass them onto your husband. And you don't want your husband, to pass anything onto you aswell. Be safe.