I've been helping a friend who recently moved back to my area for mental health treatment. We've known each other for a few years now and she's in a difficult time right now so I want to help her. I've helped her find an apartment, furniture, let her stay at my home, doing my best to help her when she has anxiety, and staying up with her when she can't sleep. It's hard though, I'm also going through treatment for my physical health and mental well being so I don't want her to feel like she's alone in this. She can be really nice and she helps me around the house sometimes. But there have been times when shes been passive aggressive, or just been really mean. It's rarely directly at me, usually she'll say something about me to my husband. At one point my marriage was in a rough patch and she told my husband maybe I wanted him to hit me. Another time she said my problems are not as serious as hers and I shouldn't act like it. Then last night we were watching a movie she wanted to watch with a women being assaulted and I started to feel a lot of anxiety and my husband suggested we watch something else. We picked something else and I left for a few minutes to calm down. My husband tried to apologize to her and explained why I couldn't watch it. But she was mad, saying that she's been assaulted before and it wasn't a big deal. Then said I guess we just handle our assaults differently and blew him off. I don't pretend to know exactly what she's going through, I will never act like I know how she feels. But she makes me feel belittled, like my problems don't matter, and that when I'm scared I'm being childish. Like I'm beneath her. I know this is long, I just feel angry and hurt. I've done everything I can to help her, but I feel like I don't mean anything to her.