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Husband smelled like booze and another woman (maybe)
My husband has the week off for the holidays, and last night he went out with some of his guy friends that he hadn't seen in a while. They were going to go out drinking and then see a concert. I told him to have a good time.
When he returned home at 1:00 AM, he was wasted, slurring words and could hardly stand up. He said "hey honey" and asked for a kiss, but his breath smelled like booze so much that, if I lit it with a match , he would have caught on fire. I gave him a kiss but I noticed one other thing: his lips tasted like **. I asked him what he had been up to, but he was such a wreck that he was incoherent. I had to undress him and guide him to bed to sleep it off.
I didn't sleep all night. The next morning I said he tasted like ** when I kissed him, and to tell me the truth, as we've been married 22 years with no issues, and honesty is paramount in our relationship. He denied any wrongdoing. I said I know what girl smells like, and it was all over his face. He still denied it. I'm not sure what to do. I have never suspected him of cheating before, and have had total trust in him, but his story and the circumstances don't add up.
My advice: give him ** about it to make sure he doesn’t repeat it and then drop the issue. If he was wasted like you said it doesn’t mean anything to him. We are all humans after all.
I'd ask a friend of his. Say something like you found something in his pocket and wanted to return it. Where were you?
I cheated 17 years after our twin boys were born as we haven't had ** since their birth, so are you keeping him interested? They're now 31and i am still looking for a fwb relationship . If interested contact me on 040xxxxxxx thanks.OOOPS, isn't this a dating sight? All the best.LOL.
Whats it matter if he had a good time or not **? He still came home to your ugly ** & you didn't catch him in bed with someone so why press the issue?
If you can't get a straight answer from him, I'd ask one of the friends he was with if he was out ** around. You might be surprised by their honesty.
My wifes fingers smelled like that recently and she played it off like i was crazy....i know what ** smells like and i know hers.....i HATE the feelings it brings and i just dont even know what to do so i totally feel your pain!
How do you know what ** tastes like?
He cheated.he's trash.its not going to getbetter.
Ask your hubby again in a calm and diplomatically manner, if he's cheated. Don't act out in an aggressive way, because he won't confess anything - if he has anything to confess.
If he confesses, you've got your solid answer. If he denies cheating, accept he's either lying or he's innocent.
Maybe it was guys ** smell. It's possible....they smell the same.
Stash away money whenever you can so when the time comes, you're prepared.
You need to get into counseling. He's never going to tell you the truth, because he did something really stupid and still thinks he can hide/deny it. At least it sounds like things were great in your relationship up to then, so there is hope. But he needs to be honest, because lying to your spouse is absolute cancer on a marriage.