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I am a 14 year old girl and I baby sit on a regular basis for a family who live near me. They have two girls, aged 5 and 7, and a boy aged 12. The boy is ok until the young ones go to bed but then he starts doing and saying things of a sexual nature. At first he was just saying rude things, then he started to expose himself to me. Then the other night I came downstairs after putting the girls to bed and he was sat in the chair, in just his vest, and he started masturbating in front of me. No matter what I said he didn't stop, he just thought it was funny. On another occasion he urinated in front of me. I don't want to stop babysitting because I need the money, and I couldn't possibly discuss this with his parents, so I will just do my best to ignore it. I've talked with my friend about it and she just thinks it's funny too, in fact she's even said she'll babysit with me so that she can see him do it.
Thank you for trying to talk some sense into her. She obviously is letting her hormones do all the thinking for her. Shes in great danger, pray for her too.
As said too this child I've daughters and think I've came across too harsh. But she's still a little girl and same age as one off our daughters. We never like too punish our daughters. But I'd rather ground them and spank them or discipline them in other ways that you can see them hurt. Kids today feel all grown up because off pressure put on them through media and alot off stuff and in reality like this little girl. Theirs millions more children under same pressure. My girls are know angels as said. But their loved and know they can come and talk too their daddy or myself and they have. Have Yous children and myself and husband and girls attend a Christian church. We do bible studies during week and our girls are involved in different church activities. Our daughter as said who's same age as this child a few months ago was getting out off hand. Copil off times she had ditched school and was cought drinking and smoking. We are not silly parents and all children go through phases and temptations. But after several warnings and talks with our daughter. Nothing seemed too get through too her. It was defffinetly time for a more direct approach and it had being a few months since she had being over my husband's or my lap. But given my daughters situation and lack off respect. My husband finally gave her a spanking. She's realy being good since and I'll add in her grades and general attitude have improved..
I raised my daughter in the church and she is very sweet and humble and has never given me a problem when it comes to drinking, smoking or drugs. I raised her going to my Bible studies i used to teach and retreats from church where she definitely felt the presence of God and wept tears of joy. Shes in college now and is still a great daughter with such a delightful and loving personality. I am truly blessed to have such a wonderful daughter. I just wish she went to church more and had a closer walk with Jesus so I pray for her always. Prayer is powerful!
I feel now I'm a bad mother and maybe too strict. Yous seem like a wonderfull family..
Why do you feel like a bad mother? Its better to be strict than careless like this 14 yr old girl were trying to help. Just never stop praying for your daughters.