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I don't think men understand me
I find it very difficult to utterly express myself thoroughly when it comes to commitment expectations. I refuse to date men who're substance abusers, alcoholics, and criminals or ex-convicts. I can so say so much but I'd rather not. My bluntness might hurt their feelings and I have no intentions to. I can't allow myself to develop feelings for someone whose life relies upon drugs, alcohol and crimes. I personally do believe everyone's worthy of love and I want to give my all to someone, but I can't allow myself to go towards someone who can't even seem to value his own life. I've always been available to them as a friend, but nothing more. I just can't. It's against my morals, my principles, my heart and my soul. I love everyone to be frank, but I have boundaries that they must respect.
I'm not interested in anyone whose life relies upon alcohol, drugs, and crimes either. But there are many more important qualities that ought to be avoided too, like being a workaholic or a gossip or a narcissist. Do you have a stick up your ** about things like that too, or do you just like to make yourself sound pure? Because people who do that are always hiding something. Always.
That okay sweetheart...cool down...I am man saying all this to you that I agree with ya...why would I prefer to go with somebody whom I don't even like just to show someone that I am dating someone....no,better to stay single...life is just seems unfair as I don't do that kinda stuff as u said above....never been to jail....no to pat on my back...have a job and responsible like you are.....but even then I am not able to find anyone.....so don't worry u one day you will find a man of ur choice and would happily ever after...😄
Haha thank you! Hopefully you'll find yourself the right person as well. (: