Boss
Me and my wife was chatting one night while having a drink relaxing in the local pub , When my wife said I need to tell you something you won't like but give me a chance to tell you before you speak . She then continued to tell me that her boss had made things difficult at work for her , She said she loves her job the hours and the money but her boss makes lewd comments to her and touches her inappropriately . I said do you want me to have a word with him but she said no I would make things worse she would sort it . Has time went on i found my self intrigued with what he was saying to my wife and what he was touching on my wife . So I asked her at first she was hesitant until I promised her I was ok with it , Then she told me he would say that she had a nice ** and nice ** every opportunity he would grab them . One day she came home a little bit flushed I asked her if she was ok , My wife said No not really , I said tell me what's happened . She said the area manager was with her boss when she entered the office , Her boss was doing his usual thing when the area manager joined in . My wife then told me her boss said she's a tease showing her cleavage and legs , He then held her arms while the area manager undone her top to get a better look then hlked up her skirt to see her ** . I was angry I said you don't show your cleavage and legs what is he talking about , Then to my horror my wife admitted to me she changes at work and puts on a short skirt and a low cut top , I asked her why , She said she enjoyed the attention I said now look what's happened don't you regret what's happened . My wife said No I kinda wanted it too happen I said how far would you have let things go if they didn't stop there my wife said I dont know . She said she would never dress like that again and will behave , I'm not sure she feels different sometimes if you know what I mean .
My wife has been ** her boss for about 5 years now. I found out about it last XMas during Xmas party. Then came to find out she’s basically the office **. She ** all the guys there.
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Your wife is a **. Sorry if that sounds harsh mate, but you need to face facts
Your wife sounds like a slapper mate. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you've got to face facts
You're wife sounds like a slapper mate. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but you need to face facts
You're wife sounds like a slapper mate. Sorry if that sounds harsh
Sounds like she enjoys the male attention at work and just wanted you to be aware of it. Very common for women to use ** appeal to advance their careers and relationship at work. As long as it doesn't go too far as, it will probably be harmless fun. My GF has a similar work environment...lots of ** kidding around with her boss.
Why do you do this?
Hello this is craig again
Is this the reason why i have always cheated on my wife at every opportunity, to not look like a ** idiot it anything happens although she has never given me any reason to doubt, you never know
What sort of ** state/Country do you live in, that enables this sort of thing to happen in the workforce?
I agree
I think the OP is on the way out. She has moved on or the OP is in dream land wishing for something.
The boss is in charge now. He's her primary interest. And you are just something on the side. Get used to it. Your wife belongs to him now. And he is sharing her with the area manager. I've seen this before. I've lived it before, and I know how these things go. You are just there to help pay the bills. Do your job. Let her have her fun. Let her do that, because … you … can't … stop it.
She said they only pulled her skirt up and unbuttoned her top ,Do you think it went further and she's lying
Yes, I'm sorry to say that it went further than she said it did. I think it's been going on for quite some time, and she's just now decided to start brining you around to the idea of her having other relationships, doing so very slowly and deliberately. My belief is that she's deeply involved with both men, but particularly her immediate boss. I'm not saying they are in love; that is unlikely. But I think they are surely ** partners, becoming more so every day, and desiring each other more and more as time passes, and becoming more and more perverse in their appetites for one another. Does that mean she's "lying"? No. It means she's telling you a truth, an absolute truth, that was current some months ago, but is not today the entire story of her attraction to these two men, or the thrill that she experiences by arousing them and then serving them. You are not -- NOT -- going to be able to put a stop to it. Trust me. She can't stop it, because it's too exciting and too flattering, and because it is so utterly addictive, so you won't be able to stop it either. Please don't criticize her for these relationships, or threaten her with divorce: it won't help. Just go along with whatever she says, pretend that you believe it's all true (and current), remind her that you love her, and stay out of their relationship. She will come home when she can (i.e., when she's worn both of them out, or they have worn her out), and you will have a wonderful. wonderful marriage and a grand life together. Give her the flexibility and the freedom to do what she pleases (and for the men to enjoy her body to your detriment and exclusion), and she will love you even more for it. But if you try to take it away, you will lose her. Forever. Please don't do that. Please don't ever EVER do THAT!
And one other thing, and this will be even more painful and hard to accept than what I wrote above, so I'll apologize in advance. Sometime within the next few months, she is going to turn up pregnant. She will be excited, and she will tell you -- or allow you to assume -- that the child is yours. Accept that. Don't question it. And DO NOT EVER TEST IT. The child will not be yours. However, in most places, the husband of the mother is legally presumed to be the father of the child, so you will be the father. Be excited with her. Share in the thrill of the pregnancy. Put your name on the birth certificate, and live like you're convinced there is no doubt about paternity. She will want you to play along, and that is what you will do. Why? Because your wife is the kind of woman who deserves to be supported by one man while she is loving two or three (or more) others. Be proud that you are married to such a woman. To a woman who knows how to love and how to take care of men. You are lucky. Trust me. I know.
You ** cuckold
The truth is she always wanted this to happen to her but as soon as she observed you didn't got turn on by her fantasy to be molested by other man. She started as a victim. It's really good she says she won't do it again but I am convinced. I am sorry to disappoint you
I have found ** underwear and stockings in a shoe box , but that's gone now perhaps shes got rid , I'm not sure what to think
Yes, those were bought for her by the boss, on a shopping trip one night after work. He took her to the adult fashion store and stood with her in the dressing room while she tried them on in front of him. He stripped her and did her in the dressing room, and then he took her back to the office and did her again. And then he sent her home to you, filled with his sloppy seconds, and instructed her to let you ** her, and slip your ** into his juices, to show he owns you both. Next day, they made love while she described it to him. Yes, they are playing you. But you MUST permit it, and find a way to enjoy it, because you do love her and you do want what is best for her. Stay. And encourage and support her. Always.
I do love her , But I don't know how to handle it , And if I could come around to enjoy this situation , How could I what do I get out of it , Should I ask her if I can watch or join in help her in some way . Thank you for your honesty
I think if you begin to say to her that the thought of her let's say doing a ** with the boss and area manager turns you on, she might slowly begin to reveal more to what really happened between them. That is if you're dying to know what really went down and how much more you didn't know. Or you can ask if she is interested in consensual non monogamy. Both of you would need to be genuinely into that to make that arrangement work. Needs clear boundaries and full transparency.