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Husband's xmas card
I was cleaning the house yesterday when I came across a stack of mail, xmas cards, etc. One of the cards was addressed to my husband. It came from a woman from his office. Normally this would be no big deal, people send holiday cards all of the time, but this one has me suspicious.
The card was normal in the sense that she sent a pic of her family, but she also handwrote to my husband "Can't wait to meet you under the mistletoe at the company Christmas party next week" and the card was also obviously sprayed with perfume.
I asked my husband wtf this was about, and he denied that there was anything going on with her. I said "it's not normal that she wants to kiss you" and he played it off as being just a friendly inside joke type of thing. I also said it is not normal for a female friend to be sending a card to a male friend that is sprayed with perfume. My husband said it's no big deal.
I'm totally paranoid that there is more going on, and it's ruining my holiday. It also bothers me that I've met this woman before, and yes, she's very attractive. It ** me off that she is flirting with my husband, though my husband doesn't think it is flirting. As a woman, I know what she is doing. Am I overreacting?
If a man was sending scented cards with un-wanted romantic comments to a woman.....
No. No normal woman Would send such a card to a married man. This Biotch knew it would cause trouble. Your husband needs a new job!
It's me again....the extramp LOL. Yes, I used such cards to cause trouble in another marriage. A woman uses whatever is available. AND I LOVED CAUSING TROUBLE!!
Some people lose their minds over simple flirting over their own insecurities.
Your insecurity is not your husbands responsibility to answer for if someone flirts with him. Get a grip it's flirting at best. Not a big deal unless you make it that way.
Yes honey he is cheating on you, feeling sorry for you. Soon there would be some perfume on your hubby’s dickk
Another good observation^. Yes, before a man left my bed or my house, I would always use subterfuge to apply copious amounts of my perfume to his **. I wanted the wife to smell me on him. Naturally, I would smear my ** juices and ** juices, as well. And I would have him rim me before leaving, so that when he arrived at home and kissed his biotch, she'd be tasting my sweet sweet **. LOL
No, you aren't overreacting. What you think is going on actually IS going on. And you should insist that he end it, today, even if it is entirely one-sided and unreciprocated. If he won't end it, tell him you'll do it.
So naïve, darling^. If the wife ever came to me, I would know that I'd won. And I would then have the opportunity to say that to her face. I TOTALLY LOVED HAVING HER COME TO ME: THAT WAS AN ACT OF FORMAL SURRENDER. :) You, sir, are clueless abut women like me. Women like me get what we want! Every time. The wife of my affair partner was always just a toy to be shredded for my pleasure!
What did any of these wives ever do to you? Maybe have something you couldn’t? Was it perhaps your own inability to hold down a long term relationship that gave you pleasure in wrecking someone else’s? What a sad life.
Not sad at all, dear. I loved the thrill of victory, the victory in taking a man from a woman to whom he'd pledged his life, and then . . . . . wound up between my legs because that was a better place, a superior place, a sexier place, a more desirable place. Yes. VICTORY. The women never did anything to me. They just had the misfortune of having a man I wanted. What a win!
Well like I said above, I’ve had plenty of women like you assume they could pick me off. Some have just had that much confidence in themselves and others believed I was ripe for the taking because I’m married to a fat woman. And I’m not going to lie, there have been times the temptation has been great. A huge turning point for me was when a woman told me she wanted me to ** her so she could ** on my wedding band and leave herself all over something that was supposed to represent me and my wife. As hot as that was it actually made me sad the more I thought about it. I backed out and have been trying to focus on being happy with what I have.
Anyway I shouldn’t be hostile to you. I just think it’s awful how you get pleasure out of ** all over these women. At the same time I suppose I’m really not that different
from you.