I was finally able to tell my estranged husband about the night he got drunk and sodomized me. We are in marriage therapy and individual therapy. Part of both is letting go of things that we've been shoving down inside. He started crying and I tried to downplay what he did. He looked at me and said I can't believe you're downplaying it! Drunk or not, what I did was absolutely horrible!

See? This is one of the behaviors I learned being married to him for almost 20 years and yet he wants to stay married.
I don't. I lived so long in unneeded apologetic behaviors that it's too easy for me to slip back into them. I like being alone and not worrying about his feelings. Its FREEING!

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  • Lack of communication and lack of s** are always the biggest problems in the relationship or marriage. Not to even mention that over 95% of men hate feminist behavior in women (me included), simply because we want women to be gentle, feminine and elegant. With feminist attitude, you are immediately loosing all femininity and thus men are loosing interest in you. There are few men who will want only s** with you (if you have a feminist attitude) and will use all means to get it, but hardly any of them will want something serious. :)

  • Boys (no matter how old you are, you are no man) who whine about "feminism" as much as this are frightened unevolved creatures who can't stand the idea of having an equal partner in life. Sorry you're so bitter about not being able to find some weak-willed little doormat who will put up with your crap :)

  • You may of won with getting a divorce, but HE is the ultimate winner,as he had your AnalVirginty haha!!

    No matter what you do with your life,no matter how you move on,or no matter what happens in the court room, the fact is, hes had you,he always has that victory! He felt the tightness as he "soddomised" you !!

    He'll get over you. He'll see you out and about,maybe with a new man or husband, and he'll think, yup, I smashed her back doors in!

  • You should be a good little f*** and let the next guy you see f*** you right in the pooper.

  • L****..... you said POOPER. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

  • Whats the issue? I do a*** on my gf all the time

  • The issue is she's clearly a prude!! Unlike your gf who is just awesome!!!!!!

  • Mmmmm you dirty ๐Ÿ˜ˆ
    You tried

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