I told my wife that I'm really gay.
I have been married for about 12 years now. I recently told my wife that I am gay. She laughed at me and said oh yes your gay. Then we had **. She said yes your gay. I said that yes I really am gay. But she didn't believe me. I had a friend come over and we both told her that I am gay and then we began kissing in front of her. She just said nice try but I don't believe you. I didn't want to take it any further like actually performing ** in front of her. Yes I do make love to her when she wants. But I much rather be with a man. I admit that I was afraid to have people know that I was gay. Now I don't care about that anymore. I tell people all the time that I am gay. Most believe me. I will still make love to my wife but I need her to know the truth. I feel badly that I used her but she was also getting what she wanted. A man who allowed her to be independent and let her do the things she wanted without all the usual baggage that comes in a heterosexual relationship like jealousy and all that. But now I want to be with my male lover and stay with him. He doesn't like me leaving to be with her. I guess I'm just going to have to leave her and let that be it. I hope she will understand.
You are not gay. You are bi. Gay men do not get excited by women and you cannot copulate all that well with a flabby **.
You are bi. You prefer men.
If you ask a lesbian, about 50% of them are bi. These can have ** with males, but they will prefer females. The other lesbians will get sick and vomit just thinking about having a male. These are the REAL lesbians.
I guess the only thing you can possibly do to get her to believe you are actually gay is to bring your boyfriend around your wife and make out with your boyfriend and if she thinks it's all for show,video tape you and your boyfriend having ** and leave it behind for her to watch after you leave her for him. I know you probably don't want to break her heart but how else are you going to convince her?
If she love you, she will let u.
So you string your wife along and deceive her and are not man enough to keep your commitments.
She will understand if she truly loves you.