My BF asked me to get FAT

I did the same thing. I love curvier girls but ended up marrying a thin one. She’s finally softening up after having our son, and I’m loving the extra curves.

How much weight has she gained? Is she willing to keep gaining for you or is your fetish a secret she doesn’t know about?

She’s up a good 30 pounds since the pandemic. Her gain isn’t anything I requested. I’m doing some soft encouragement, but more from an “enjoy life” standpoint. My preference definitely isn’t a secret. But if she never gained another pound, she knows I’d still find her ** as **.

I don’t think you’d be considering it if you didn’t secretly want to be bigger. True?

I got an email notice that someone posted on this. Wow! I totally forgot I posted this a couple years ago!!
Sad update: I’ve gained weight. 😞
Happy update: I have a ring and we are getting married in 2020!!

Yea….maybe? IDK. I was a little indifferent to the idea, at first, but I started liking gaining weight with his reaction. He loved it!!! It made me feel special and ** to him. It has been interesting to go through a weight gain and see and feel how your body changes.

What has been the biggest upside and downside to gaining? Did your boyfriend end up gaining too?

Downsides: more tired, body aches sometimes, buying new clothes, seeing people again after putting on noticeable weight, clothes don’t fit as well sometimes, the ladies get bigger.

Upsides: not worrying about my weight, not being controlled by a diet, buying new clothes, seeing people again that are happy for me after putting on noticeable weight, the ladies get bigger, my man loves it.

Sounds like an idea approach. Congratulations again!

He has gained maybe 15-20 pounds. Nothing too big, but noticeable when his shirt is off and his abs are gone. 😊

Happened to me too. once cut abs, buried under 20 pounds of fat, still core strong, just padded

That’s true. Secret fatty alert here. She was just ready to plump up and wanted an excuse!!

So what did you decide? Does your boyfriend have the curvy girl he fantasized about?

I decided to try to gain a little weight for him. I gained some weight slowly by just eating whatever I wanted and not working out as much. I have to admit, that part was wonderful!!
After about six months, I had gained 20 pounds, went up to a size 8 dress size and my world didn’t end. It wasn’t as bad as I thought, especially with the pandemic kinda masking the weight gain. No one was really noticing.
Well, he definitely noticed, loved it, and asked if I was going to gain any more weight. I asked him if he wanted that, and he said the extra weight looked good on me. I said I could gain more if he promised he would still be attracted to me. He encouraged me to gain weight until I wanted to stop.
From 2020 to 2021, I’ve gained another 40-50 pounds. I’m almost 200 pounds now, and he loves my size. It’s not as bad as I thought it would be, but definitely a physical and mental adjustment. My mom has taken it the hardest.
I’m not sure I would recommend gaining that much weight to another woman, but it’s worked out for me. It has taken a lot of pressure off of trying to be thin for him, and it’s nice to know he still loves me if I gain a little weight now and then.
We are both so happy!

So nice to hear. Congratulations! Is there anything he did to make you feel more accepting?

Lovely comments and complements. A lot of physical touch. More undivided attention. He was just happy and content with my new size, which made it easier to be bigger.

Wow! That’s a lot of weight!! 🍰

How tall are you? Does 200lbs feel like a lot for you? Btw any update on how things are going?

5’6”. 200 pounds is definitely heavier than I have ever been. It’s different physically, like dressing my new body type and working out. Had to buy a bigger bra, bigger shirts, pants, etc. But he loves it, so it’s been a lot of fun and enjoyable. He doesn’t want me to lose any of the weight, which was my biggest fear. I was afraid I would get too “fat” for him.

How did you find gaining the weight? Did you have to change your eating habits a lot? Why did your Mom have a problem with it? Were other people supportive of your choice?

How big did he want her?!!!

Absolutely fat girls are hot! There’s nothing sexier than watching an S/O become lazy and live life

Would you get FAT for your significant other?

I have and I would again

Gaining weight isn’t the worst thing someone can ask you to do in a relationship. If you love him and want to be with him, maybe gaining weight is the tradeoff to ensure he is always yours. I would rather be a fatter version of myself with my man than a skinnier version without him.

I asked my fiancé/husband to do this. He was in such great shape and it was embarrassing to be next to him. I’m shorter and chubbier. As we got closer to the wedding, he chubbied up for me so we didn’t look like such an odd couple at the altar. It was so sweet!

That’s so sweet! How much did he gain? Did he add to it after the wedding or lose it?

He gained almost forty pounds in forty weeks leading up to our marriage. It was fascinating watching his body chubby up - his belly, double chin, chest and arms. It was noticeable, but he still looked amazing in a (bigger) tuxedo.

So cute. Did he keep growing after the wedding? Where is the gain going now?

Yea, probably another 20 pounds. I think a majority went to his big belly.

Do you like when people get fat?

Oh, yeah. He has put on a little more weight. Maybe twenty pounds since his initial gain. His belly grew a couple of inches.

Gaining weight can be very emotional for anyone, but especially women. Going up ten dress sizes is a significant amount and will change your daily life. I used to be very active and get a lot of attention for my looks when I was skinnier. I gained about fifty pounds and all that stopped. It’s also different dressing a bigger body type, even if it’s your own body that you are used to. You will likely have to buy a whole new wardrobe. And you can’t control where you gain the weight on your body. Some women have a nice gain that works, and then some women gain in the wrong places (** and ** vs. stomach or lower legs vs. thighs), and that doesn’t look as good.

My husband asked me to get and I did. I came to like it very much, so much so I'm 536lbs.

That’s too fat.

I would ask you to get fat, too! A woman with big curves is **!

If he’s into you being fat, then be fat. He’s the only one that should be looking at you that way anyway.

I did this to my boyfriend. He was in shape, but I am attracted to a man with some belly on him. So I asked my boyfriend to get fat for me. At first, he was very reluctant. But he started to let some weight creep on for me, and I loved it! He’s probably 230 now (he’s almost six feet tall), and he was probably 200 when I asked him a year ago. His **, chubby belly is such a turn on for me now!! I love him so much!

My husband has started to get a belly, and I love it!! It’s so cute!

What do you like about it?

Whoa! He went from in shape to a potbelly belt overhang for you in one year! Hope you enjoy your McFatty!

Sounds like a plan that I would follow

That’s really cute. Has he gained more since? Are you still happy about it?

He’s about 250 pounds now. He has a big belly now and has gotten a little fatter all over his body. He’s so handsome!! I love his body.

I started gaining weight when I went to college. I was so svelte and small my freshmen year. By my senior year, I had gained about forty pounds and looked very different. My face was chubbier. I grew a couple cup sizes. My arms and legs became a little flabby. My ** got bigger and rounder, like more shapely. But I got so many more compliments on my figure, especially when I wore a dress. Men and women said they thought I looked better and healthier. I am a size 10, and I work out to maintain my size now, and not to try and lose any weight or size. I’m happy where I am today.

Well, it’s totally up to you. It’s your man and your relationship. I’ve known women who have done “worse” things to make their man happy. If it’s just a few extra indulgences and some weight gain, I would consider it. Most of us gain that weight anyway without even trying!

If a few dress sizes are in the way of becoming a 10 for him, then what’s the issue? Indulge in whatever fatty treats you want, enjoy some more TV than usual, and you will start packing on the pounds in no time. Just make sure you check in with him and don’t overdo it. You don’t want to get bigger than he fancies. And don’t be embarrassed about gaining weight. Everyone gains weight. I would gladly trade skinny jeans for a husband who will treat me like a 10 wife.

Get fat and let him love you. Nothing wrong with that.