My BF asked me to get FAT

My boyfriend asked me to get fat! We’ve been together three years and we plan to get married over the next two years. We went ring shopping the other day so he can see what I like.
I love him so much, but the other day he asked me to gain weight. I’m a size 4/6 and he said he’s always wanted a chubby wife. He asked me if I would quit working out and gain weight until I was like a size 14 or 16.
He said he’s always been more attracted to bigger women, but he fell in love with me. He said I would be his dream woman if I was bigger and curvier, and that I would be his perfect 10. He said he’s attracted to my body now, but he always fantasize about me as a heavier woman. I don’t know what to do. I love him and want to marry him and be his perfect woman, but I’ve never been that size before. Should I get fat for him?

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  • If a few dress sizes are in the way of becoming a 10 for him, then what’s the issue? Indulge in whatever fatty treats you want, enjoy some more TV than usual, and you will start packing on the pounds in no time. Just make sure you check in with him and don’t overdo it. You don’t want to get bigger than he fancies. And don’t be embarrassed about gaining weight. Everyone gains weight. I would gladly trade skinny jeans for a husband who will treat me like a 10 wife.

  • Get fat and let him love you. Nothing wrong with that.

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  • I have had a very similar experience and my hubby was honest and very sincere, at first I rebuffed his request and could tell it really hurt him. I eventually agreed to try and gain a little weight. As I did, he loved it, we became closer and we became more passionate. I was only going to gain from 120 to 160 (I'm 5'6") but it felt so good I gained more, I'm now I size 16/18 and LOVE it!

  • I love it too and I'm way bigger than a size 18

  • How much weight did you gain?

  • What felt good about gaining weight?

  • It feels good just to not stress about it. It feels good to feel the extra fat on your body and see your curves get curvier. Fattening up can be very sensual, especially if your partner finds the new pounds alluring and sexy.

  • How much total weight did you gain?

  • What has changed for you, emotionally and physically?

  • I was definitely more self-conscious, but I think that was all me. No one (except my mother!) cared about me gaining weight. Some people who knew me when I was skinnier said I looked happier at a bigger weight. And men still kept looking, even though I was a little fatter than before.

  • Overwhelming majority of men prefer women who have a body type similar to that of Mariah Carey. No, she's not fat and anyone who thinks she is - definitely needs to check their eyes and brain.

    So yeah, you should gain some weight. Curvy (eg. 5'6", 140 lbs) and even slightly chubby (eg. 5'6", 160 lbs) IS SEXY, while anorexia (eg. 5'6", 110 lbs) isn't.

  • Very accurate scale. And I agree 100%.

  • I agree. I would much rather have a curvy or chubbier woman over a stick skinny woman. You could go up 3-4 dress sizes and see how you feel from there.

  • Well the only negative, and it’s big, is the health impact. Also if you get too big you won’t be able to do active stuff. Think about that before you agree to anything.

  • I wouldn’t agree to anything. I would tell him you will put on a few pounds and see how you feel.

  • I’m a size 16 and still do very similar work outs to when I was a smaller size. It can be done. You get a little more tired sooner, but it can still be done.

  • I put on about fifty pounds over the course of a year. I was very active, but went on some medication and hurt myself training and had to take time off. Fifty pounds later I find myself back in the gym. It’s different, but not impossible to exercise at a higher weight. Some guys I knew at the gym said they think I look better with the added fifty pounds and told me to work out to maintain it but not so hard that I lose any of it!

  • I have a fat wife, lets just trade. lol

  • I like my gf to be skinny. I starve her. She is all skin and bone. Sometimes I have made her go several days with just water and she will feint. Sometimes she pleads with me to care for her and not let her die and I tell her she will be fine. We weigh her every day and have kept her weight pretty constant and not dropping any more. She has not had a period in over two years.

  • Well provided you like to do what he says, which you should by the way. You should be totally submitted to him and basically do what he wants. Mind you he will never be satisfied but it will be nice to try.

  • So you think I should gain weight?

  • Gain 50!

  • You can start slowly and see how you feel.

  • I think you should put on 20-30 over six months and see how you both feel after that.

  • Take it slow and you might find it’s not as bad as you think. Just be confident and own your new figure. That’s what men like!

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