I'm gonna be 30yo, and I have never been in a relationship?

Okay, I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, never been physical with a man (not even holding hands, kissing etc). And it's honestly eating me up from the inside.

The people around me gets dates, get approached all the time and I am always the girl left out. I have more female friends than male friends.

I admit I spent my 20's as an ugly duckling. I was tall and fat, had terrible skin and dressed dowdily. So I can see this as a contributing factor. I didn't care if I didn't have boyfriends in HS since I really was focused on studying and getting good grades. My college years I had no luck in dating too and people would tell me I am ugly to my face.

About 4 years back, I decided to change myself: I worked out so now I am fit and tall, skin cleared up (people hardly recognize me) and I adopted a fashion style.

I get compliments all the time from girls on how much better I look and admitted being jealous of my "makeover" and constantly asked me for tips.

Yet my luck with guys is still appalling. Still no one's asking me out - now that I know I am for sure not that ugly duckling anymore.

I AM really shy & introverted, but I do talk to people. Girls tell me all the time that I am really attractive and have a good character.

So why isn't SOMEONE noticing this?? I don't even have luck in the numerous dating sites I've signed up!

What would you think about a girl like me? What would you think about a woman who's doing her first everything in her 30s?

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