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I'm gonna be 30yo, and I have never been in a relationship?
Okay, I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, never been physical with a man (not even holding hands, kissing etc). And it's honestly eating me up from the inside.
The people around me gets dates, get approached all the time and I am always the girl left out. I have more female friends than male friends.
I admit I spent my 20's as an ugly duckling. I was tall and fat, had terrible skin and dressed dowdily. So I can see this as a contributing factor. I didn't care if I didn't have boyfriends in HS since I really was focused on studying and getting good grades. My college years I had no luck in dating too and people would tell me I am ugly to my face.
About 4 years back, I decided to change myself: I worked out so now I am fit and tall, skin cleared up (people hardly recognize me) and I adopted a fashion style.
I get compliments all the time from girls on how much better I look and admitted being jealous of my "makeover" and constantly asked me for tips.
Yet my luck with guys is still appalling. Still no one's asking me out - now that I know I am for sure not that ugly duckling anymore.
I AM really shy & introverted, but I do talk to people. Girls tell me all the time that I am really attractive and have a good character.
So why isn't SOMEONE noticing this?? I don't even have luck in the numerous dating sites I've signed up!
What would you think about a girl like me? What would you think about a woman who's doing her first everything in her 30s?
As a male, the first thing that comes to my mind is you’re to old now. To me you should of gotten skinny and be cute at ages 9 to 19. That is the peak that men like females. As she ages her value tends to decrease with it. Why choose you when there’s other younger girls with tighter bodies on the market? I mean you’re fit now sure, but I’d of rather had you when you were say 9 and your cute and still tight body.
I would love to be in a relationship with someone like that.Would you like to talk elswhere op?
Idk how you long but girls lie and shower other girls with fake conpliments all the time
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