What to do
My wife (8years) has come out as lesbian though she’s never tried a girl. Our s** life used to be pretty decent with ups and downs. Recently it’s been down. Last night she told me in the spirit of openness and honesty that she doesn’t really like s** with me anymore and really wants to find a girlfriend BUT she wants to stay with me to raise our children. we both work full time jobs. She still might want to f*** me but this is new territory and she’s nervous and unsure. Part of me just wants to say why bother sticking around like some s*** cuckhold loser but she agrees that if she’s f****** around so can I. What would you do?