Do I Love Him...

Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half and im not sure if I love him anymore, lastnight he did something that I thought he would never do which has made me think alot less of him. I think im falling for my best friend who told me he loved me and ever since then I keep thinking of him, I know we wouldnt work as a couple at all we are too different..so im not thinking about going out with him. It just seems like im too young to settle down which is how it feels at the moment, I cant leave my boyfriend though beacause im scared he will do something stupid or meet someone else, urgh Im so selfish. I dont know what to do if I dump him what if ive made the worst mistake of my life and he doesnt want me back hes so sweet and caring and loving, but if i stay with him I might regret it when its too late to end it.

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  • Thank for the advice that seems like a plan I kinda do need to be ok with being on my own I guess but its just I really dont want to hurt him..

  • Be single for 6 months until you figure out what's going on in your head. Then make a decision. Holding on to a boyfriend you're not sure of is selfish. That keeps him from finding the person who is going to love him the way he deserves. You're supposed to want the best for him in his life- even if it means you're not in it. But just the same, staying with him also keeps the person who could love you the way YOU deserve from coming into your ife as well.

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