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I'm the confused one
I don't see why it's such a big problem to talk about LGBT stuff on here while a lot of others talk about different ** stuff and how attracted they are to their family members. I am not judging them or posting any hate on their posts either because that is disrespectful and it doesn't matter to me what opinion on it I have when I can't help or say anything nice.
I am sorry if you think I am a attention seeker because that was never my intention and I didn't write it because I wanted validation and attention.
I just hoped I could get some advice and opinions on my problem.
I am young and I believe it's normal to be trying to find myself at such a young age. But society force this ideal image on everyone.
So I am not happy about getting hateful comments but you can do what you can. I am taking it so I can get some advice.
If you don't care don't read. It's your free choice.
You are a sexual pervert , like every other LGBTQ+ is . Before we know it , paedophiles will be marching and demanding their "rights" too . Then it will be LGBTQP+ . Male and female is natural , everything else is a perversion .
The only thing I’m confused about is this posting. What are you talking about? Plenty of gay stuff on here. The problem is that most of the postings are by the same people who are either into **, **, and child abuse. You’re just being drowned out by it all.
No it just thinks it's better than all the other gay people
Just enjoy like there are always unhappy folks, they thrive on failure and will ill will to others. You can tell since they always make those personal attacks about others. Always ignorant about things so they get personal.
Hey, buddy, it's okay to be confused about this. I'm not sure where you are in your story, but I found out that I was exclusively gay (not just bi) last Christmas. It's been a weird ride since, but I've been grateful for all the support from my friends and siblings. I've even read a couple books on how to be both gay and a Christian. If you need advice, and think I can help, we can talk in the comments.
Hi, thanks for the support. I don't know how you feel about being transgender or if you could help with that.
We can certainly talk. I don't know much about being transgender though. I was born male, and while I am generally ranked as more feminine in most psychological tests, I still identify as a man. One thing I can say is I don't appreciate how many non-gender related traits have become gendered in our society. Loving pink and telling my male friends I love them should not be considered out of gender for a man.
ITA. You do you :)
IDK did that help any?
Ok I get it. But as you are a gay man (not trying to be offensive or anything) could you give me some perspective how it feels to be a guy and gay?
I'm not gendering colours I just know when I was younger I didn't like pink because everyone said it's for girls. Like I just hated the things when they would mark me as a girl in the eyes of society.
In my opinion loving pink is fine. Whether you are male or female. It's a colour after all.
It feels like i'm oddly comfortable around men and women. Women, because they know I'm not out for **. Men, because society expects us to goof around with each other anyway. Most of the time, being gay doesn't do a lot, but suddenly I'll fall head over heels for a guy. Another thing, is it's a little lonelier. I want a husband badly, but gay relationships are rarer than straight ones. I need to put more effort into finding a guy, but at the same time, I don't want to be a Grindr or Gay Bar prowler. I want a friend before a boyfriend, and who knows when that'll happen.