I’ve been dating an awesome guy for about six months now. I really think this could be the guy and he feels the same about me. Problem is he is VERY conservative in bed. The straightforward s** we have is unbelievable but I’m used to lots of foreplay which I guess is a little kinky. For example when I’m giving him a b****** he just sits there. I’ve tried to get him to be more dominant and hinted he can grab my hair a little and move his hips a bit but nothing. I love having my ass slapped when a guy is s******* me from behind. He won’t do it. He barely gives me oral. He never takes charge and just bends me over which I love. I don’t know how else to get him to do these things.